Only two weeks ago, I was preparing myself to lose a very dear friend. We prayed over him, and trusted God that He would work things out for good, but I still traveled through the Valley of the Shadow of Death.
I know each of us owes a life, and I know none of us will get off this world alive, unless Jesus comes back first. It doesn't make it any easier to think about losing your friends and loved ones.
Well, today I'm celebrating! I saw with my own eyes how God handles things. My friend is up walking around, talking, seeing and hearing - even though doctors were afraid he would lose all those things. He spoke to us this morning about concerns for our town, and he was as sharp as ever. He came in to the meeting under his own power. He heard what we said, saw us, and was able to tell us what he thought about things; he remembered details from earlier discussions, and knew details about the projects we're currently working on.
I struggle each day to praise God in all things, good and bad;I have a song that encourages me to do just that - it's one of my favorite songs "I'll Praise You in this Storm" by Casting Crowns; here are the words:
I was sure by now,God, that You would have reached down
and wiped our tears away,
stepped in and saved the day.
But once again, I say amen
and it's still raining
as the thunder rolls
I barely hear You whisper through the rain,
"I'm with you"
and as Your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise
the God who gives and takes away.
Chorus:
And I'll praise you in this storm
and I will lift my hands
for You are who You are
no matter where I am
and every tear I've cried
You hold in your hand
You never left my side
and though my heart is torn
I will praise You in this storm
I remember when I stumbled in the wind
You heard my cry to You
and raised me up again
my strength is almost gone how can I carry on
if I can't find You
and as the thunder rolls
I barely hear You whisper through the rain
"I'm with you"
and as Your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise
the God who gives and takes away
Chorus
I lift my eyes onto the hills
where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord, the maker of heaven and earth
I lift my eyes onto the hills
where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord, the maker of heaven and earth
(words by Mark Hall/music by Mark Hall and Bernie Herms)
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Monday, September 29, 2008
What I learned
I'll hit the half-century mark in just a few days - boy, that sounds old! I don't feel that old, but apparently I am, because my kids say so... they think some of my views on life are wacky and outdated, but I know why I feel that way.
Some of my favorite memories of childhood involve what's now called classic TV. I grew up when 'Leave it To Beaver', 'I Love Lucy', 'Bonanza', 'Dick Van Dyke' and 'Andy Griffith' were seen on television. I look at the world today through eyes that grew up on those shows, and I learned the truths of life watching them.
Uncle Jed was always as meek as a lamb, but wise as a serpent. He saw the best in folks, always tried to help out the less fortunate, but he didn't let folks take advantage of him, and he stood up for what was right. He didn't let all that money change him from the good man he was.
Laura Petrey always met Rob at the door, glad to see him, and she was sexy in her capri pants.
Lucy's hairbrained schemes rarely worked, but she always had good sense of humor when she messed up.
Ward wanted his boys to behave their best, and sometimes went too far in his expectations, but he also was man enough to admit when he'd messed up, and would ask their forgiveness when he did.
Pa Cartwirght expected his sons to work hard and play fair. He used the power his money and land brought him to help those around him, and make the whole community a better place.
My kids and I watched a movie called "Pleasantville" when it first came on television, and their response to the black and white section was 'that is so boring'... as a parent in today's society, I think sometimes boring might be a good thing. School shootings, teen pregnancy, drugs, and a general sense from most folks that there's no such thing as the sanctity of human life - those things might be exciting, but I don't think that makes them very good.
Some of my favorite memories of childhood involve what's now called classic TV. I grew up when 'Leave it To Beaver', 'I Love Lucy', 'Bonanza', 'Dick Van Dyke' and 'Andy Griffith' were seen on television. I look at the world today through eyes that grew up on those shows, and I learned the truths of life watching them.
Uncle Jed was always as meek as a lamb, but wise as a serpent. He saw the best in folks, always tried to help out the less fortunate, but he didn't let folks take advantage of him, and he stood up for what was right. He didn't let all that money change him from the good man he was.
Laura Petrey always met Rob at the door, glad to see him, and she was sexy in her capri pants.
Lucy's hairbrained schemes rarely worked, but she always had good sense of humor when she messed up.
Ward wanted his boys to behave their best, and sometimes went too far in his expectations, but he also was man enough to admit when he'd messed up, and would ask their forgiveness when he did.
Pa Cartwirght expected his sons to work hard and play fair. He used the power his money and land brought him to help those around him, and make the whole community a better place.
My kids and I watched a movie called "Pleasantville" when it first came on television, and their response to the black and white section was 'that is so boring'... as a parent in today's society, I think sometimes boring might be a good thing. School shootings, teen pregnancy, drugs, and a general sense from most folks that there's no such thing as the sanctity of human life - those things might be exciting, but I don't think that makes them very good.
Time Management
Last week I wrote about contact management- today I'd like to say a little about time management.
We all have the same amount of time each week to get things done. There are so many hours each day that are already spoken for - you have to sleep, eat and refresh yourself physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally.
So, you've got to make the remaining hours count. There are all kinds of time management systems on the market, so there's sure to be a system that meets your needs.
I use the Franklin-Covey paper system in combination with Outlook. My daily tasks go into my datebook, with recurring tasks set in Outlook to remind me. I've tweaked both systems until they work the way I want. I use some FC forms; some forms I've found on other forms on 43 Folders that I like, and other forms I've created on my computer to print as I need them.
Most every seminar or class on time management that I've attended has used the pickle jar story. The basic story is that if you've got to get a whole bunch of stuff in a pickle jar, start out with the big stuff, then move down the list; in other words, plan for your most important tasks, then work the others in as you've got time.
My point is that everyone should be able to find some system that works for them. Once you find it, USE it... it does no good at all to have a beautiful leather planner with all kinds of forms, dated pages and envelopes in it, if all you do is lug it around and show it off to people. It's kinda like those folks who own a gorgeous Yamaha Raider motorcycle that's completely dressed out with every chrome bling on it that's available; but they're afraid they'll get it dirty so it sits in their garage - it's basically a huge paperweight...
I have two planners I use - one has 1 1/2 inch rings, and the other has 2 inch rings. It depends on how full my life is at the moment - right now, things are very busy so I use the bigger rings to hold more 'stuff'. In a few months, things may back off and I'll move back to the smaller rings.
If you're not sure what system might work for you, check out some of the following places to get some ideas. Franklin Covey, 43 Folders, DayRunner, Outlook/Palm (if you're running a computer with Windows, you've got Outlook Express, which may work for you, but you may need more). And don't be afraid to ask others what system they use- they'll be flattered you want their input, and they may have some ideas you hadn't considered...
We all have the same amount of time each week to get things done. There are so many hours each day that are already spoken for - you have to sleep, eat and refresh yourself physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally.
So, you've got to make the remaining hours count. There are all kinds of time management systems on the market, so there's sure to be a system that meets your needs.
I use the Franklin-Covey paper system in combination with Outlook. My daily tasks go into my datebook, with recurring tasks set in Outlook to remind me. I've tweaked both systems until they work the way I want. I use some FC forms; some forms I've found on other forms on 43 Folders that I like, and other forms I've created on my computer to print as I need them.
Most every seminar or class on time management that I've attended has used the pickle jar story. The basic story is that if you've got to get a whole bunch of stuff in a pickle jar, start out with the big stuff, then move down the list; in other words, plan for your most important tasks, then work the others in as you've got time.
My point is that everyone should be able to find some system that works for them. Once you find it, USE it... it does no good at all to have a beautiful leather planner with all kinds of forms, dated pages and envelopes in it, if all you do is lug it around and show it off to people. It's kinda like those folks who own a gorgeous Yamaha Raider motorcycle that's completely dressed out with every chrome bling on it that's available; but they're afraid they'll get it dirty so it sits in their garage - it's basically a huge paperweight...
I have two planners I use - one has 1 1/2 inch rings, and the other has 2 inch rings. It depends on how full my life is at the moment - right now, things are very busy so I use the bigger rings to hold more 'stuff'. In a few months, things may back off and I'll move back to the smaller rings.
If you're not sure what system might work for you, check out some of the following places to get some ideas. Franklin Covey, 43 Folders, DayRunner, Outlook/Palm (if you're running a computer with Windows, you've got Outlook Express, which may work for you, but you may need more). And don't be afraid to ask others what system they use- they'll be flattered you want their input, and they may have some ideas you hadn't considered...
Friday, September 26, 2008
Contact Management
I sometimes get mired down by 'pushy paper' - you know, those little notes,letters, ads and other things on your desk that you need to deal with, but somehow can't find time to do. They end up getting pushed around from one corner of my desk to another.
Most of the things in my little stack are things that could taken care of very quickly, but I put them off, and I rationalize that since they're such little things, I can get them done later.
I've made a conscious decision to set aside 30 minutes at least once a day to work through these items. For example, I had a stack of business cards sitting on my desk that I've collected on my runs around town -they've now been entered into my Outlook contacts list, with notes on who the person is and how I met them. I've also edited my list of categories in Outlook, so they're more effective.
I also make notes in any appropriate fields in Outlook - if I only know that the business manager's name is Jim, I enter that, sorting the contact to list it under only the business name, but I also add a task to find out a little more about Jim- last name, hobbies, etc. Then if I think he'll make a good source of assistance to someone else, I list him in that category, too. If I can get several of his business cards, I'll pass them along to folks who can use his help. I'll make any notes I can in in the miscellaneous field.
I'm not trying to sell you on Outlook; I love it and use it as much as possible, even looking for new ways to use it. But you might have a different system that works for you. The point is to use it for all it's worth.
Besides Outlook on my computers, I also use the Franklin Covey paper system (2 pages per day and sometimes that's not enough!); my cell phone is a Palm Centro which syncs to Outlook and keeps as much information as possible on it.
One other suggestion- no matter what your system, make sure you keep it safe. If it's a paper system, make sure you keep your planner with you; if you're using a computer-based program, back it up often. I speak from experience: several years ago I bought an external hard drive that I keep all my documents and files on and it's backed up onto another computer. However, I failed to back up my Outlook files, and when my system crashed, I lost all my emails, and even worse, my notes and contacts. Thankfully I had printed my contacts list to a pdf file, but the notes I had are gone. Some I could recreate, but not all.
Remember, if it's important enough to you to save in the first place, make a back up!
Most of the things in my little stack are things that could taken care of very quickly, but I put them off, and I rationalize that since they're such little things, I can get them done later.
I've made a conscious decision to set aside 30 minutes at least once a day to work through these items. For example, I had a stack of business cards sitting on my desk that I've collected on my runs around town -they've now been entered into my Outlook contacts list, with notes on who the person is and how I met them. I've also edited my list of categories in Outlook, so they're more effective.
I also make notes in any appropriate fields in Outlook - if I only know that the business manager's name is Jim, I enter that, sorting the contact to list it under only the business name, but I also add a task to find out a little more about Jim- last name, hobbies, etc. Then if I think he'll make a good source of assistance to someone else, I list him in that category, too. If I can get several of his business cards, I'll pass them along to folks who can use his help. I'll make any notes I can in in the miscellaneous field.
I'm not trying to sell you on Outlook; I love it and use it as much as possible, even looking for new ways to use it. But you might have a different system that works for you. The point is to use it for all it's worth.
Besides Outlook on my computers, I also use the Franklin Covey paper system (2 pages per day and sometimes that's not enough!); my cell phone is a Palm Centro which syncs to Outlook and keeps as much information as possible on it.
One other suggestion- no matter what your system, make sure you keep it safe. If it's a paper system, make sure you keep your planner with you; if you're using a computer-based program, back it up often. I speak from experience: several years ago I bought an external hard drive that I keep all my documents and files on and it's backed up onto another computer. However, I failed to back up my Outlook files, and when my system crashed, I lost all my emails, and even worse, my notes and contacts. Thankfully I had printed my contacts list to a pdf file, but the notes I had are gone. Some I could recreate, but not all.
Remember, if it's important enough to you to save in the first place, make a back up!
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
He's comin' home!!!
I finally caught up with our middle son this afternoon. He's stationed in Germany, and will be coming home next month.
I knew he was scheduled for some time off, but we never know until a little before he leaves whether it's going to work out. He's finalized his flight in, and given us a pickup time.
He'll get to be home for about a month, so my mom is planning on cooking an early Thanksgiving so he can celebrate with us. He's always liked 'green stuff' (pistachio salad) so I'm sure that will be on the menu.
We really have an old-fashioned, right-out-of-Southern Living spread at Thanksgiving and Christmas - turkey and dressing (my mother's is always just right), sweet potato casserole, peas, butter beans, rolls, cranberry sauce (the kind that slides right out of the can), and usually some great salads and casseroles. Coconut cake and pies - who can argue with that kind of meal?
I'm so looking forward to seeing him - he's never met his nephew (whose birthday was yesterday) and he's only seen some of the other nieces and nephews a few times, so he's in for a real treat. I'm sure we'll have to arrange some kind of day just for the kids to crawl around on him and let him know how proud they are of him.
I'm very proud of my son and all the others who serve our country- even if they serve in peacetime, they make a sacrifice no one else can imagine, and they don't ask for any recognition - I remember the first time we picked him up at the airport - a group of folks from a military support group were there, and every time a few soldiers came through the gate, they stood and applauded. Most of the men and women looked slightly embarrassed, as if they'd prefer to just walk on without all the attention. Next time you see a soldier or other military person, say thank you...
I knew he was scheduled for some time off, but we never know until a little before he leaves whether it's going to work out. He's finalized his flight in, and given us a pickup time.
He'll get to be home for about a month, so my mom is planning on cooking an early Thanksgiving so he can celebrate with us. He's always liked 'green stuff' (pistachio salad) so I'm sure that will be on the menu.
We really have an old-fashioned, right-out-of-Southern Living spread at Thanksgiving and Christmas - turkey and dressing (my mother's is always just right), sweet potato casserole, peas, butter beans, rolls, cranberry sauce (the kind that slides right out of the can), and usually some great salads and casseroles. Coconut cake and pies - who can argue with that kind of meal?
I'm so looking forward to seeing him - he's never met his nephew (whose birthday was yesterday) and he's only seen some of the other nieces and nephews a few times, so he's in for a real treat. I'm sure we'll have to arrange some kind of day just for the kids to crawl around on him and let him know how proud they are of him.
I'm very proud of my son and all the others who serve our country- even if they serve in peacetime, they make a sacrifice no one else can imagine, and they don't ask for any recognition - I remember the first time we picked him up at the airport - a group of folks from a military support group were there, and every time a few soldiers came through the gate, they stood and applauded. Most of the men and women looked slightly embarrassed, as if they'd prefer to just walk on without all the attention. Next time you see a soldier or other military person, say thank you...
Marketing Your Business
You know your business more than anyone else - what is your marketing strategy? Starting today, I'll occasionally give you ideas to market your business that are will hopefully be quirky enough to get a prospect's attention, and isn't that one point of marketing?
Today's suggestion: seeds.
If you are in any business that can help another business grow, mail out small seed packets attached to a marketing piece discussing ways you can help 'grow your business'. To further personalize the pieces, gear seed choices to the prospect- a grocery store might get vegetable seeds, wheat seeds for a bakery and flower seeds for a florist's shop.
It's okay to have your marketing pieces mass-produced, but leave yourself a little leeway in putting those individual touches on them. I've designed some marketing postcards for my own business - the front is pre-printed, but I've left the back blank so I have the choice to hand write a message or print it from my desktop, then add my signature.
Make sure your prospects see that you've got time for them- that may be the deciding reason they choose to do business with you.
Today's suggestion: seeds.
If you are in any business that can help another business grow, mail out small seed packets attached to a marketing piece discussing ways you can help 'grow your business'. To further personalize the pieces, gear seed choices to the prospect- a grocery store might get vegetable seeds, wheat seeds for a bakery and flower seeds for a florist's shop.
It's okay to have your marketing pieces mass-produced, but leave yourself a little leeway in putting those individual touches on them. I've designed some marketing postcards for my own business - the front is pre-printed, but I've left the back blank so I have the choice to hand write a message or print it from my desktop, then add my signature.
Make sure your prospects see that you've got time for them- that may be the deciding reason they choose to do business with you.
Monday, September 22, 2008
Customer Service
We were at the local Verizon store on Saturday, because I've got to upgrade my phone. We looked around at the different options, and I spoke to the salesman a couple of times with questions.
When I decided on the phone I wanted, I told the salesman, who then told me that he would be glad to sell me a phone, but it would benefit me more if I went home and ordered it online- there were a wider variety of phones online, more savings available, the phone would be delivered the next business day, and my store credit would work online, so I'd actually get a better phone for the same price.
That's good customer service in my book. This young man acted very professionally, answering all my questions, besides working with another customer (and not making either one of us feel as if we were being too much trouble). He put my benefit above his own, so I plan on going back to that store for any accessories I need to get for my phone.
How do you live intentionally (see here or here) in your business? Do your employees know how to put the customer's needs first?
When I decided on the phone I wanted, I told the salesman, who then told me that he would be glad to sell me a phone, but it would benefit me more if I went home and ordered it online- there were a wider variety of phones online, more savings available, the phone would be delivered the next business day, and my store credit would work online, so I'd actually get a better phone for the same price.
That's good customer service in my book. This young man acted very professionally, answering all my questions, besides working with another customer (and not making either one of us feel as if we were being too much trouble). He put my benefit above his own, so I plan on going back to that store for any accessories I need to get for my phone.
How do you live intentionally (see here or here) in your business? Do your employees know how to put the customer's needs first?
How thankful are you? part 2
We had to go into Montgomery on Saturday for Reid's birthday party, then afterwards by to see my folks.
We had also planned on upgrading two of our cell phones, so when my husband got off work, we headed over to the Verizon store. I figured out what I wanted, then went up to the counter. The salesman there suggested that we get online and order the phones because of the increased savings (how's that for customer service?), so that's what we did.
I was anxious to get home, because I had some things to get done. When we stopped at a small convenience store so my husband could get a soft drink, a lady hurried up and asked if we had a bike tool kit (hubby was on his bike). Of course, we said yes, and walked over. Their lights weren't working, so we stayed with them while they figured out the problem (thankfully, only a blown fuse). Since we were all headed in the same direction, we rode along with them, in case of more trouble... they ended up staying at the hotel near our house and came to church with us yesterday.
When we first stopped, I was ready to move on because of chores, but I was really glad we got held up- not only were we able to help someone who needed it, but we also made some new friends (who by the way, are about as crazy as we are - LOL).
Whether you're a Christian or not, remember that things happen for a reason - what starts out as a problem often can turn into a blessing if you'll just let it!
On another note- happy birthday to Reid, who is two today, and to Talan, who will be born sometime today. Papaw and Granny love you both!
We had also planned on upgrading two of our cell phones, so when my husband got off work, we headed over to the Verizon store. I figured out what I wanted, then went up to the counter. The salesman there suggested that we get online and order the phones because of the increased savings (how's that for customer service?), so that's what we did.
I was anxious to get home, because I had some things to get done. When we stopped at a small convenience store so my husband could get a soft drink, a lady hurried up and asked if we had a bike tool kit (hubby was on his bike). Of course, we said yes, and walked over. Their lights weren't working, so we stayed with them while they figured out the problem (thankfully, only a blown fuse). Since we were all headed in the same direction, we rode along with them, in case of more trouble... they ended up staying at the hotel near our house and came to church with us yesterday.
When we first stopped, I was ready to move on because of chores, but I was really glad we got held up- not only were we able to help someone who needed it, but we also made some new friends (who by the way, are about as crazy as we are - LOL).
Whether you're a Christian or not, remember that things happen for a reason - what starts out as a problem often can turn into a blessing if you'll just let it!
On another note- happy birthday to Reid, who is two today, and to Talan, who will be born sometime today. Papaw and Granny love you both!
Saturday, September 20, 2008
What's Your (tag) Line?
Does your business have a tag line? You know, like "Coke- it's the real thing"; or "Pepsi- the choice of a new generation" (just to be fair, ya know.)
Sometimes it can be hard to come up with a tag line. It needs to be something that is catchy and tells a little bit about the personality of your business. One great way to come up with a tag line is to brainstorm with some of your trusted employees and customers. One person trying to come up with ideas can be difficult, but working within a group can be fun and inventive (and eye-opening, too).
One 'rule' to remember - there are no stupid ideas when you're brainstorming. Make sure each person knows that everyone's ideas will be considered. The junior stock boy's ideas will be treated the same as the boss's suggestions.
Jot down each idea - even if it sounds dumb, it might trigger a very good response from someone else. And in the worst case, if it's completely silly, the laughter can relieve stress.
And speaking of humor- if you're having trouble getting started, tell everyone to come up with the craziest idea they can. Sometimes thinking around corners can bring out some good ideas that will really work.
You can always bring in your professional designer to help, and he or she will have some great ideas too. Your designer can fine-tune things and give you some tips on how best to word things, but remember, you know your business better than anyone else, so you should have some input into the process.
Sometimes it can be hard to come up with a tag line. It needs to be something that is catchy and tells a little bit about the personality of your business. One great way to come up with a tag line is to brainstorm with some of your trusted employees and customers. One person trying to come up with ideas can be difficult, but working within a group can be fun and inventive (and eye-opening, too).
One 'rule' to remember - there are no stupid ideas when you're brainstorming. Make sure each person knows that everyone's ideas will be considered. The junior stock boy's ideas will be treated the same as the boss's suggestions.
Jot down each idea - even if it sounds dumb, it might trigger a very good response from someone else. And in the worst case, if it's completely silly, the laughter can relieve stress.
And speaking of humor- if you're having trouble getting started, tell everyone to come up with the craziest idea they can. Sometimes thinking around corners can bring out some good ideas that will really work.
You can always bring in your professional designer to help, and he or she will have some great ideas too. Your designer can fine-tune things and give you some tips on how best to word things, but remember, you know your business better than anyone else, so you should have some input into the process.
I'll never be the same...
On Wednesday, Aug. 1 2007, I attended my first mission as a PGR member. We honored a fallen PGR member who was also retired Air Force. He was killed riding from one military funeral to another one.
Before we got to the cemetery, I kept thinking 'I can't do this' - since my son and son in law are both serving in the Army, I didn't know how to handle my feelings. But as I stood on that flag line, sweat running down my back, the sun in my face, gripping the flag pole, trying hard not to cry, suddenly I felt the flag on my left- it brushed my shoulder, and gently caressed my face. The vet who was holding that flag smiled at me and pulled the flag back towards it's pole. Then they gave the command for us to come to attention - they fired the guns, presented the flags, and the lone rider gunned his engine and rode away, his flag flying.
I could write ten pages, and it would never be enough to tell how that felt - to know I was there honoring someone I didn't know. The family walking by, saying 'thank you for being here' - and all I could say was 'it's an honor to be here'...
I'll never be the same.
Before we got to the cemetery, I kept thinking 'I can't do this' - since my son and son in law are both serving in the Army, I didn't know how to handle my feelings. But as I stood on that flag line, sweat running down my back, the sun in my face, gripping the flag pole, trying hard not to cry, suddenly I felt the flag on my left- it brushed my shoulder, and gently caressed my face. The vet who was holding that flag smiled at me and pulled the flag back towards it's pole. Then they gave the command for us to come to attention - they fired the guns, presented the flags, and the lone rider gunned his engine and rode away, his flag flying.
I could write ten pages, and it would never be enough to tell how that felt - to know I was there honoring someone I didn't know. The family walking by, saying 'thank you for being here' - and all I could say was 'it's an honor to be here'...
I'll never be the same.
Friday, September 19, 2008
How thankful are you?
I've been reminded through several things this week that I am called to be thankful in all things- not just the good things, but the bad as well. The Bible says "all things work together for good for those who are called according to His purpose". I've had a rough time over a situation going on, and I had just about given up on things working out, but God reminded me to pray and turn things over to Him. Almost immediately afterwards, I found out that things are going to work out, and will be better than I expected.
One of my favorite Bible stories is in Genesis, the story of Isaac's father wanting to find a wife for him. He sent a servant back to their homeland to find one from among his kinfolks; I was reading the story the other day and a phrase caught my attention: while the servant was looking for a wife for Isaac, he prayed, asking God to give him guidance. The Bible says "and while he was still praying" God answered his prayer (emphasis added). We're so quick to think God isn't listening, or that He won't answer us, that we forget how often He answers "while we were still praying"...
Please remember to be thankful for the good and bad things in your life- you never know what will come from them.
Johnny Appleseed
Oh, the Lord's been good to me, and so I thank the Lord
for giving me, the things I need, the sun and the rain and the apple seed;
Oh, He's been good to me!
A little girl I used to know, sang this as her blessing at mealtime. It's from the Disney short, Johnny Appleseed. I've always thought that was a sweet way to say thanks for what we have.
Are we thankful for what we have? That's something I struggle with every day. I want to let God know that I'm thankful for what He's done for me, but I let other things get in the way. And I have more things than ever to be thankful for- our family is doing well and growing (a new grandbaby due any time!) we're doing some much-needed work to our house, my business is growing. One of my goals is to stay in a thankful attitude and to keep the main thing, the main thing.
Like the old song says, when things get bad, start counting your blessings. You'll be glad you did!
One of my favorite Bible stories is in Genesis, the story of Isaac's father wanting to find a wife for him. He sent a servant back to their homeland to find one from among his kinfolks; I was reading the story the other day and a phrase caught my attention: while the servant was looking for a wife for Isaac, he prayed, asking God to give him guidance. The Bible says "and while he was still praying" God answered his prayer (emphasis added). We're so quick to think God isn't listening, or that He won't answer us, that we forget how often He answers "while we were still praying"...
Please remember to be thankful for the good and bad things in your life- you never know what will come from them.
Johnny Appleseed
Oh, the Lord's been good to me, and so I thank the Lord
for giving me, the things I need, the sun and the rain and the apple seed;
Oh, He's been good to me!
A little girl I used to know, sang this as her blessing at mealtime. It's from the Disney short, Johnny Appleseed. I've always thought that was a sweet way to say thanks for what we have.
Are we thankful for what we have? That's something I struggle with every day. I want to let God know that I'm thankful for what He's done for me, but I let other things get in the way. And I have more things than ever to be thankful for- our family is doing well and growing (a new grandbaby due any time!) we're doing some much-needed work to our house, my business is growing. One of my goals is to stay in a thankful attitude and to keep the main thing, the main thing.
Like the old song says, when things get bad, start counting your blessings. You'll be glad you did!
The Accidental Salesperson
A few years ago I was offered a short-term position as a radio ad salesperson; to prepare for that job I visited my favorite bookstore and found a copy of the book "The Accidental Salesperson" by Chris Lytle. It's been one of the best investments I ever made for my career.
Lytle uses unorthodox methods to make his points, including suggestions for movies to watch on how to NOT be a successful salesperson. And like a good preacher, he finds lessons in all kinds of situations, including an airport shoe shine man.
Make sure you read all the way to the end of the book - there's a special section on Chris' website that is accessible only to readers of the book.
And if you're thinking "But I'm not a salesperson", remember, everybody is a salesperson in some part of their life. While the book is geared towards advertising sales, it can be translated to other types of marketing.
This is a great system, and Chris also offers marketing emails several times a week, that are also helpful.
If you need a good boost in your sales career, find this book and buy it. At about $18, it's worth every penny. Buy it, read and study it, and get the system in gear. You'll be glad you did.
Lytle uses unorthodox methods to make his points, including suggestions for movies to watch on how to NOT be a successful salesperson. And like a good preacher, he finds lessons in all kinds of situations, including an airport shoe shine man.
Make sure you read all the way to the end of the book - there's a special section on Chris' website that is accessible only to readers of the book.
And if you're thinking "But I'm not a salesperson", remember, everybody is a salesperson in some part of their life. While the book is geared towards advertising sales, it can be translated to other types of marketing.
This is a great system, and Chris also offers marketing emails several times a week, that are also helpful.
If you need a good boost in your sales career, find this book and buy it. At about $18, it's worth every penny. Buy it, read and study it, and get the system in gear. You'll be glad you did.
Thursday, September 18, 2008
The Right to Life
I wrote a post a few weeks ago about Obama's statement on when he believes children should be eligible for human rights. I still stand behind what I said, but I do have some thoughts that are related.
I read a devotional this morning from a young woman who had an abortion years ago, and suffered in silence for many years. She thought God couldn't forgive her, and she also thought that she was the only Christian who had ever had an abortion, so she felt others wouldn't accept her if they knew.
How sad that must have been- I cannot imagine going through something like that on my own. Part of her hurt and loneliness is due to people who are pro-life and don't carefully choose their words. When we speak out on our beliefs, we need to make sure that we're doing it in love. We are standing up for helpless children who can't stand up for themselves; when we do this, we need to make sure we're not stepping on those women who have decided to have an abortion because they don't think they have any other option.
I believe that a child is human at conception; I believe that all people have the right to live their lives, whether it' a child who may have health, physical or mental problems, or an older person who has gone past the point when they are totally self-sufficient, and need help taking care of their needs. I believe all people are valuable, no matter what their circumstances.
I'm willing to stand up and tell anyone what I believe; but I need to be very careful that while I'm trying to save one life, I'm not destroying another. I also need to make sure that when I ask a young woman to choose life for her unborn child, I am willing to step up and help her in whatever way she needs it, so she can choose life.
No matter whether we're pro-life or pro-abortion, we need to make sure we're ready to stand with these women when they make their decision, and be ready to support them afterwards.
I'm going to make sure I do this - are you willing to make the same choice?
I read a devotional this morning from a young woman who had an abortion years ago, and suffered in silence for many years. She thought God couldn't forgive her, and she also thought that she was the only Christian who had ever had an abortion, so she felt others wouldn't accept her if they knew.
How sad that must have been- I cannot imagine going through something like that on my own. Part of her hurt and loneliness is due to people who are pro-life and don't carefully choose their words. When we speak out on our beliefs, we need to make sure that we're doing it in love. We are standing up for helpless children who can't stand up for themselves; when we do this, we need to make sure we're not stepping on those women who have decided to have an abortion because they don't think they have any other option.
I believe that a child is human at conception; I believe that all people have the right to live their lives, whether it' a child who may have health, physical or mental problems, or an older person who has gone past the point when they are totally self-sufficient, and need help taking care of their needs. I believe all people are valuable, no matter what their circumstances.
I'm willing to stand up and tell anyone what I believe; but I need to be very careful that while I'm trying to save one life, I'm not destroying another. I also need to make sure that when I ask a young woman to choose life for her unborn child, I am willing to step up and help her in whatever way she needs it, so she can choose life.
No matter whether we're pro-life or pro-abortion, we need to make sure we're ready to stand with these women when they make their decision, and be ready to support them afterwards.
I'm going to make sure I do this - are you willing to make the same choice?
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Happiness reigns, even in sadness
Our youngest grandson Reid's birthday is next week, and we'll celebrate his party this Saturday. He likes John Deere stuff, because his daddy feeds cows and drives a tractor (what better reason?); he'll be two.
We're also expecting another grandson next week, on Reid's birthday as well. This will be #9 for us: four boys and five girls. We're so blessed to have so many wonderful grandkids - they're all beautiful intelligent children (and I am NOT prejudiced a bit). Each one is a joy to be around, and I couldn't be more proud of them.
The happiness they give us helps out in tough times, too. We're facing the possible loss of two friends - while I'm trying to be positive and remember that God is in control, I'm human. I know each of us will die at some point, but when it's a friend or family member, it's hard to face.
I'm sad, because when we lose them, I'll miss them. I'm happy, because I know they'll be in heaven and I'll see them again one day. I know once they get to heaven, there won't be any more illness for them.
A word for you- if you've got loved ones, tell them how you feel. It may be your last chance... if you've got children or grandchildren, give them an extra hug and some sugar (that's what my grandma used to call a kiss, just in case you're not from around here). It will sweeten you up.
If you're not sure about heaven and whether you're going, please take the time to find out. I'd hate for you to miss such a good thing. If you don't have someone you can ask, you're welcome to contact me. I'd love to share the good news I have with you...
We're also expecting another grandson next week, on Reid's birthday as well. This will be #9 for us: four boys and five girls. We're so blessed to have so many wonderful grandkids - they're all beautiful intelligent children (and I am NOT prejudiced a bit). Each one is a joy to be around, and I couldn't be more proud of them.
The happiness they give us helps out in tough times, too. We're facing the possible loss of two friends - while I'm trying to be positive and remember that God is in control, I'm human. I know each of us will die at some point, but when it's a friend or family member, it's hard to face.
I'm sad, because when we lose them, I'll miss them. I'm happy, because I know they'll be in heaven and I'll see them again one day. I know once they get to heaven, there won't be any more illness for them.
A word for you- if you've got loved ones, tell them how you feel. It may be your last chance... if you've got children or grandchildren, give them an extra hug and some sugar (that's what my grandma used to call a kiss, just in case you're not from around here). It will sweeten you up.
If you're not sure about heaven and whether you're going, please take the time to find out. I'd hate for you to miss such a good thing. If you don't have someone you can ask, you're welcome to contact me. I'd love to share the good news I have with you...
Monday, September 15, 2008
Thoughts on the Weekend
It's been a long weekend... our town's mayor collapsed at work earlier in the week, and they found a plum-sized tumor near his speech center. Husband and I drove up to see him and his wife on Friday morning- things look pretty bleak, but we are all praying; and I believe that God is able to heal JD and bring him back home to finish the work he's started. Until that time, the rest of us are going to work as hard as we can, keep praying, and try to make sure that our little town is in the same good shape when he comes home as when he left.
Then Friday night our band/football team had to travel over three hours to the game (on the Mississippi state line). Whose idea is it to set these things up, and do they not care that gas is now $4 a gallon? Sure, we could have stayed home, but I want to be there for my child at every chance I get. We finally made it home and got into bed around 1 AM.
Up at 6 to get to the park for our bike group's poker run (this one benefits families in distress in our area). We had a very good turnout and raised about $600, which was VERY good- this was our first try at a poker run like this. We finished everything up around 2 and headed out.
After we left the park, we ran into some other friends of ours, who invited us to a wedding (yes, here in the south, that kind of thing happens). On the way there, we had a nice shower, so we sat in wet jeans during the ceremony (that's part of riding too). It was a sweet ceremony, and made me realize how fortunate I am that my husband and I have made a life together.
We finally made it home around 4 or so, got showered and cleaned up, and settled in for the night. I have learned/remembered some lessons that I'd like to share:
I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help. My help [cometh] from the LORD, which made heaven and earth. He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber. Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep. The LORD [is] thy keeper: the LORD [is] thy shade upon thy right hand. The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night. The LORD shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul. The LORD shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.
Then Friday night our band/football team had to travel over three hours to the game (on the Mississippi state line). Whose idea is it to set these things up, and do they not care that gas is now $4 a gallon? Sure, we could have stayed home, but I want to be there for my child at every chance I get. We finally made it home and got into bed around 1 AM.
Up at 6 to get to the park for our bike group's poker run (this one benefits families in distress in our area). We had a very good turnout and raised about $600, which was VERY good- this was our first try at a poker run like this. We finished everything up around 2 and headed out.
After we left the park, we ran into some other friends of ours, who invited us to a wedding (yes, here in the south, that kind of thing happens). On the way there, we had a nice shower, so we sat in wet jeans during the ceremony (that's part of riding too). It was a sweet ceremony, and made me realize how fortunate I am that my husband and I have made a life together.
We finally made it home around 4 or so, got showered and cleaned up, and settled in for the night. I have learned/remembered some lessons that I'd like to share:
- everybody has problems - if you can get past your own 'stuff' and make others feel welcome, or cared for, you're doing good.
- some people are just naturally negative about everything- take it in stride when you can, but sometimes you just can't handle negative statements- when that happens, step away and regroup. Don't let a negative person make you doubt who you are, or what you are capable of doing.
- you can do a lot more than you think you can.
- for those of you who are Christians - God is in control, and His hands hold the future. Don't give up until the end.
I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help. My help [cometh] from the LORD, which made heaven and earth. He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber. Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep. The LORD [is] thy keeper: the LORD [is] thy shade upon thy right hand. The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night. The LORD shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul. The LORD shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.
Thursday, September 11, 2008
We will never forget
Today is a day of remembrance for me. Seven years ago, my older son was a senior in high school, and as the events of the day unfolded, we knew things were changing.
When he got home from school that afternoon, he said "Mom, today has made me realize what I've got to do." By Christmas, he had enlisted in the Army, and within a few weeks of graduation, he shipped off for basic training.
I know military service isn't for everyone - it takes a special person to make the sacrifices a military life requires. I'm proud that my son is willing to make that sacrifice.
I am not saying I want us at war, and I certainly want my son and his buddies to come home. I'd much rather know I can drive to where my son is, and give him a hug when I want to.
But I want them all brought home in a way that doesn't put them in more danger than they're in now.
Let's finish the job we started, and then get our guys and gals out of there...
When he got home from school that afternoon, he said "Mom, today has made me realize what I've got to do." By Christmas, he had enlisted in the Army, and within a few weeks of graduation, he shipped off for basic training.
I know military service isn't for everyone - it takes a special person to make the sacrifices a military life requires. I'm proud that my son is willing to make that sacrifice.
I am not saying I want us at war, and I certainly want my son and his buddies to come home. I'd much rather know I can drive to where my son is, and give him a hug when I want to.
But I want them all brought home in a way that doesn't put them in more danger than they're in now.
Let's finish the job we started, and then get our guys and gals out of there...
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Why are some people so heartless?
I let my basset baby out this morning to 'take care of his business', and I saw a scrawny, dirty face peek at me from around my back corner. Caleb, who loves everybody and everything, barked and called the little dog around to us. She came around the house, looking as if she was expecting to be beaten, and sat at my feet.
I couldn't help it- I had to give her a good rub and 'make big' over her. She didn't look like she'd eaten in about two weeks, and her white coat is so thin that her skin is sunburned. You can see her ribs and her spine, and her behind looks raw.
I fed her and put out some cool water, and right now she's lying at the foot of my back steps, waiting for me to come back outside and pet her some more. Her belly is full, and there is plenty more food where that came from; for now she's content just to rest and (hopefully) put some meat on her bones. Every time I go out the backdoor, she 'grins' and whines at me, and she'll walk right beside me as I go around the yard.
I hope that she's just gotten lost and hasn't had the opportunity to eat, because otherwise, it means someone has intentionally starved and mistreated her. Our two cats have walked right up and sniffed her, and she hasn't so much as lifted an eyebrow at them. She just lays there and lets them sniff.
I've listed her in Craigslist, and at the local vet's office, in case her owners are looking for her - we had some folks come through after Gustav hit the coast. If not, I guess we've got a new dog... I've always said there's a sign in our yard that only dogs and cats can see - it says "free food -see lady at the door".
I think we'll call her 'Lucky'.
I couldn't help it- I had to give her a good rub and 'make big' over her. She didn't look like she'd eaten in about two weeks, and her white coat is so thin that her skin is sunburned. You can see her ribs and her spine, and her behind looks raw.
I fed her and put out some cool water, and right now she's lying at the foot of my back steps, waiting for me to come back outside and pet her some more. Her belly is full, and there is plenty more food where that came from; for now she's content just to rest and (hopefully) put some meat on her bones. Every time I go out the backdoor, she 'grins' and whines at me, and she'll walk right beside me as I go around the yard.
I hope that she's just gotten lost and hasn't had the opportunity to eat, because otherwise, it means someone has intentionally starved and mistreated her. Our two cats have walked right up and sniffed her, and she hasn't so much as lifted an eyebrow at them. She just lays there and lets them sniff.
I've listed her in Craigslist, and at the local vet's office, in case her owners are looking for her - we had some folks come through after Gustav hit the coast. If not, I guess we've got a new dog... I've always said there's a sign in our yard that only dogs and cats can see - it says "free food -see lady at the door".
I think we'll call her 'Lucky'.
Drill Here, Drill Now
Aaron Tippin's new song "Drill Here, Drill Now" is becoming the anthem for the American Solutions movement. Check out the song here - we as Americans need to step up and insist that our government leaders do what it takes to start drilling for oil on our own soil.
We can also start looking for other solutions to our dependence on foreign oil. Check out T Boone Pickens' site for other ways to be independent of other countries. There's no one way to do it, but if we all work together and find many types of energy, we can be the country we should be.
We can also start looking for other solutions to our dependence on foreign oil. Check out T Boone Pickens' site for other ways to be independent of other countries. There's no one way to do it, but if we all work together and find many types of energy, we can be the country we should be.
Tuesday, September 9, 2008
Days of Frustration...
This weekend just ending has had some rough edges. Ballgame Friday night, up early and to the church to pick peanuts off the vine for our upcoming peanut boil (we got 3 large trashbags full!); Saturday evening we helped chaperone a teenage party for some friends' daughters. Sunday is always full, between Sunday School and church in the morning (I teach children's church), lunch at MIL's house, children's play practice on Sunday afternoon, then back to church for evening worship. Then last night's meeting left me feeling drained...
I know I shouldn't let things push me past my breaking point, but it happens sometimes, just the same. Too much drama from too many directions all at once, and I'm feeling overwhelmed. I'm still not back to my normal, happy self - I'm not claiming to be a happy camper all the time, but for the most part I operate on a pretty even keel.
I know there are some things that I need to do to prevent this from happening. First, I need to spend more time praying and studying my Bible, so I know where I'm supposed to be (I notice that when I get to this point, my mind tends to start worrying about things that don't come under my authority).
Second, I need to make sure I'm getting the rest I need - when I start feeling like this, I need to get away, either by walking, riding, reading or listening to music.
Third, I need to talk it over with someone - mostly it's my husband, but it can be others as well. The main thing is I need to say out loud what the problem is, so it loses it's power on me.
I feel better now, and I can get back to work...
I know I shouldn't let things push me past my breaking point, but it happens sometimes, just the same. Too much drama from too many directions all at once, and I'm feeling overwhelmed. I'm still not back to my normal, happy self - I'm not claiming to be a happy camper all the time, but for the most part I operate on a pretty even keel.
I know there are some things that I need to do to prevent this from happening. First, I need to spend more time praying and studying my Bible, so I know where I'm supposed to be (I notice that when I get to this point, my mind tends to start worrying about things that don't come under my authority).
Second, I need to make sure I'm getting the rest I need - when I start feeling like this, I need to get away, either by walking, riding, reading or listening to music.
Third, I need to talk it over with someone - mostly it's my husband, but it can be others as well. The main thing is I need to say out loud what the problem is, so it loses it's power on me.
I feel better now, and I can get back to work...
Monday, September 8, 2008
Straightening out the curves...
This spring, my husband and I, along with several of our friends, drove up to Seneca, SC, to attend a biker revival.
The revival runs from Thursday through Sunday; we headed up early to get in a few days of rest and mountain riding. I'd been hearing about the Tail of the Dragon for several months, and I knew I needed to ride it, because ever since learning to ride last year, sharp curves have been my biggest challenge.
I believe God gave me my bike (due to many reasons I may cover in another entry), and I know He has promised to take care of me in all circumstances. I just needed to learn to trust Him in curves... so one of my goals during the week was to ride the Dragon, if at all possible.
DH and I talked to some of the others in our group, and we decided we'd leave out on Friday morning and be on the road by 8 AM to get there and back by supper (about 120 miles one way, through curvy small country roads). We saw some beautiful country and I got a TON of practice on curves; we didn't realize it but the road we took to Deal's Gap is nicknamed Hellbender...
I was escorted on my ride by some very nice guys- besides my husband, I had Robert, Donnie and last but certainly not least, my riding buddy Byron.
Robert knew how nervous I was about the ride, so before we left, he told me he'd had his morning devotional and had found a verse that God specifically sent to me. Isaiah 45:2 says in part, "I will go before you And make the crooked places straight"; I spoke that verse to myself on a regular basis during the day.
The ride was exactly what I needed- by the time we got back that afternoon, I had perfect confidence in God's ability to take care of me, and confidence in myself, that He'd given me the knowledge to do something I'd set out to do.
You see, I knew in my head how to handle those curves:
I'm a much better rider than I was, and it was all because I looked my fears in the eye, and took God at His word.
Keep your chin up!
The revival runs from Thursday through Sunday; we headed up early to get in a few days of rest and mountain riding. I'd been hearing about the Tail of the Dragon for several months, and I knew I needed to ride it, because ever since learning to ride last year, sharp curves have been my biggest challenge.
I believe God gave me my bike (due to many reasons I may cover in another entry), and I know He has promised to take care of me in all circumstances. I just needed to learn to trust Him in curves... so one of my goals during the week was to ride the Dragon, if at all possible.
DH and I talked to some of the others in our group, and we decided we'd leave out on Friday morning and be on the road by 8 AM to get there and back by supper (about 120 miles one way, through curvy small country roads). We saw some beautiful country and I got a TON of practice on curves; we didn't realize it but the road we took to Deal's Gap is nicknamed Hellbender...
I was escorted on my ride by some very nice guys- besides my husband, I had Robert, Donnie and last but certainly not least, my riding buddy Byron.
Robert knew how nervous I was about the ride, so before we left, he told me he'd had his morning devotional and had found a verse that God specifically sent to me. Isaiah 45:2 says in part, "I will go before you And make the crooked places straight"; I spoke that verse to myself on a regular basis during the day.
The ride was exactly what I needed- by the time we got back that afternoon, I had perfect confidence in God's ability to take care of me, and confidence in myself, that He'd given me the knowledge to do something I'd set out to do.
You see, I knew in my head how to handle those curves:
- keep your chin up so you're looking on out past your bike's fender to see what's coming up instead of worrying about what's right in front of you
- use your clutch and brakes to control how the bike traveled through the switchbacks
- keep speed as constant as possible- not so fast that the bike travels over the line, but fast enough to keep the bike moving smoothly
- adjust your sitting position so you're giving the bike as much flexibility as it needs
- relax on the bike so you don't wear yourself out
I'm a much better rider than I was, and it was all because I looked my fears in the eye, and took God at His word.
Keep your chin up!
Friday, September 5, 2008
Patriot Guard
I am a very proud member of the Patriot Guard Riders. I'm not proud of what I do, but proud that I'm able to ride with such a wonderful group of folks, who do the right thing, even when it's not comfortable or popular.
I could describe how it feels to stand at parade rest in the hot sun, holding a flag, honoring a fallen hero, their family and friends while they mourn, but words aren't enough.
The breeze brushes the flag against your face, tears well up and run down your face, your chest expands til it's ready to burst, from pride and sorrow and thankfulness to this person who has made the ultimate sacrifice.
My son serves in the military, my son-in-law serves in the military; I've had a brother, an uncle, cousins, grandfathers, brothers-in-law who have served in the past; I'm proud of each one of them, and I ride for them.
I'm not pro-war - I can't imagine anyone wanting to have a war. But, I am pro-America, and I believe the only way we will ever have peace is through strength.
If you're not familiar with the PGR, please visit the site and consider joining. All they ask is that you have a desire to show respect for our heroes and their families - they don't care what you ride, or if you ride- just be ready to show respect.
I could describe how it feels to stand at parade rest in the hot sun, holding a flag, honoring a fallen hero, their family and friends while they mourn, but words aren't enough.
The breeze brushes the flag against your face, tears well up and run down your face, your chest expands til it's ready to burst, from pride and sorrow and thankfulness to this person who has made the ultimate sacrifice.
My son serves in the military, my son-in-law serves in the military; I've had a brother, an uncle, cousins, grandfathers, brothers-in-law who have served in the past; I'm proud of each one of them, and I ride for them.
I'm not pro-war - I can't imagine anyone wanting to have a war. But, I am pro-America, and I believe the only way we will ever have peace is through strength.
If you're not familiar with the PGR, please visit the site and consider joining. All they ask is that you have a desire to show respect for our heroes and their families - they don't care what you ride, or if you ride- just be ready to show respect.
Psalm 121
I love reading my Bible... I don't always read it like I should, but when I do, it's like having a cool drink of water when I'm thirsty.
One of my favorite chapters is Psalms 121:
I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.
My help cometh from the LORD, which made heaven and earth.
He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber .
Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep.
The LORD is thy keeper : the LORD is thy shade upon thy right hand.
The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night.
The LORD shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul.
The LORD shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.
There are lots of different versions to read, some good, some bad (if you're not sure about a translation, check with your pastor or other trusted leader, and do some research on Google to make sure you're getting one that sticks to the original wording.) I usually study using the New King James, Young's Literal Translation or the English Standard Version.
But just to read it for the beauty of the language, I love to read the King James version. It's like poetry, and it just flows through me.
I hope your Friday is wonderful and blessed, and I hope you have some verses that comfort you and lift you up.
One of my favorite chapters is Psalms 121:
I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.
My help cometh from the LORD, which made heaven and earth.
He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber .
Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep.
The LORD is thy keeper : the LORD is thy shade upon thy right hand.
The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night.
The LORD shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul.
The LORD shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.
There are lots of different versions to read, some good, some bad (if you're not sure about a translation, check with your pastor or other trusted leader, and do some research on Google to make sure you're getting one that sticks to the original wording.) I usually study using the New King James, Young's Literal Translation or the English Standard Version.
But just to read it for the beauty of the language, I love to read the King James version. It's like poetry, and it just flows through me.
I hope your Friday is wonderful and blessed, and I hope you have some verses that comfort you and lift you up.
Thursday, September 4, 2008
Global Vision's 6 in 1 kit - biker eyewear review
A few weeks ago, I got a new set of riding glasses. They're " The Boss 6 in 1 Kit " by Global Vision. I normally ride using a half-helmet, and my bike has a windshield, but I still like having something to keep bugs and dust out of my eyes, so I'd been using my faithful shades from Wal-mart, but when I started using these, I fell in love.
First, there's one frame, with quick-change lens (clear, yellow and sunglass). Each eyepiece has a little foam pad that helps filter out more dust (and rain) . You can wear them as regular glasses, or take off the end of each arm and add a band that will hold the glasses firmly to your head. I've used all three types of lens, and I really like them. They all fit inside a nice padded case that's about the size of a compact day planner. The case zips up, so changing out lens in late day is only a matter of minutes. I keep the case stored in my left saddlebag, so it actually takes me longer to get the case out than it does to change out the lens.
One suggestion I will make - when you first use these glasses, make sure you snap the sliding lock firmly in place. The first two times I changed out lens, it took a second try to lock them- I was afraid I would snap them in too far. Don't worry about that though-they're very sturdy.
I got mine down at Valley Grove General Store - check with them before you go anywhere else. Lynn's customer service puts her far ahead of anyone else, and her prices are great!
They fit nicely to my face, and are very light; the arms don't bother my ears under my helmet. I think you' ll really like these.
First, there's one frame, with quick-change lens (clear, yellow and sunglass). Each eyepiece has a little foam pad that helps filter out more dust (and rain) . You can wear them as regular glasses, or take off the end of each arm and add a band that will hold the glasses firmly to your head. I've used all three types of lens, and I really like them. They all fit inside a nice padded case that's about the size of a compact day planner. The case zips up, so changing out lens in late day is only a matter of minutes. I keep the case stored in my left saddlebag, so it actually takes me longer to get the case out than it does to change out the lens.
One suggestion I will make - when you first use these glasses, make sure you snap the sliding lock firmly in place. The first two times I changed out lens, it took a second try to lock them- I was afraid I would snap them in too far. Don't worry about that though-they're very sturdy.
I got mine down at Valley Grove General Store - check with them before you go anywhere else. Lynn's customer service puts her far ahead of anyone else, and her prices are great!
They fit nicely to my face, and are very light; the arms don't bother my ears under my helmet. I think you' ll really like these.
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
Rutledge Loop
If you ever wonder why I call my blog (and my website) Around the Loop, here's the reason - I live near the Rutledge Loop, in Crenshaw County. It has got some of the most beautiful scenery you can imagine. Pastures with cows and horses, old homesteads and barns, beautiful flowers (including a lovely garden of cannas at my friend Charlotte's house), and a great woody swamp complete with a wooden bridge. I get the urge to drive through and just ride with my window down, looking and listening. This morning I took a short trip through and found some butterflies and wildflowers (see my flickr page for more).
This area is such a pretty place, and I'm so thankful I live here.
This area is such a pretty place, and I'm so thankful I live here.
Too bad, so sad...
I don't know about you, but I really get ticked off when I get that 'too bad, so sad' attitude from a salesperson. A couple of different situations in the last week has gotten me on the customer service rant again.
Our cell phone service (which shall remain nameless) is supposedly known for no dead zones, our area is very rural and we don't always have good service. On top of that, over the past few weeks, my phone won't ring when I have a call. It goes straight to voice mail, and never shows that I've got a missed call, until several hours (or days) later when the voice mail suddenly shows up. During this time, my phone will show full bars. HB may have to dial me several times before he gets me. We've been by the local offices several times, and they've tried all kinds of things including resetting all the default settings and hooking my phone directly to the computer to update the software. That brings up another point- I can't even update the software where I live, I have to wait 'til I'm in Montgomery, which isn't very often.
I don't guess it would be such a big deal but for 3 things:
The other situation involves my college aged son - I ordered one of his books from the online bookstore related to the university. The order form says, 'you'll get a confirmation email when the book is available for pickup'. Got the email, printed it out and sent it with my son to school so he could pick up the book. He gets to the bookstore the first time, he's told they're not quite ready, come back later. Goes back the next day and is told they're sold out, check back later (I'm thinking why did they sell the book I paid for?). They give him a paid receipt so he can show that next time. He goes back yesterday and they tell him he can't pick it up because it's not in his name, but mine - well duh, my name was on the card I paid with; no place on the order form to put his name.
I called and went 'Sugarbaker' on the girl who answered- I told her the sequence of events, and that we live 30 miles from the school, he's there and I can't just turn loose and drive over there to pick it up and hand it to him. She asks if she can put me on hold and check out some things.
She finally comes back and tells me that there was a mistake - those books had never come in and I shouldn't have gotten a confirmation yet. She had no explanation for the other things; of course I apologized to her, it's not her fault, she's just a student worker. But somewhere, somehow, folks have got to realize they're being paid to do a job. Don't just say the first thing off the top of your head, and brush off customers.
Why are we as a society doing this? I want to challenge you- go over your customer service guidelines; if you've got employees, discuss with them how they should treat your customers. Ask them to remember that the customer is their real boss- if the customers quit buying, you go out of business.
Start taking care of your customers!
Our cell phone service (which shall remain nameless) is supposedly known for no dead zones, our area is very rural and we don't always have good service. On top of that, over the past few weeks, my phone won't ring when I have a call. It goes straight to voice mail, and never shows that I've got a missed call, until several hours (or days) later when the voice mail suddenly shows up. During this time, my phone will show full bars. HB may have to dial me several times before he gets me. We've been by the local offices several times, and they've tried all kinds of things including resetting all the default settings and hooking my phone directly to the computer to update the software. That brings up another point- I can't even update the software where I live, I have to wait 'til I'm in Montgomery, which isn't very often.
I don't guess it would be such a big deal but for 3 things:
- I've given my cell number out to my clients so they can reach me when they need me
- my daughter, who is 15, has after school activities and might need to contact me
- I paid for my phone service and I like to get what I paid for
The other situation involves my college aged son - I ordered one of his books from the online bookstore related to the university. The order form says, 'you'll get a confirmation email when the book is available for pickup'. Got the email, printed it out and sent it with my son to school so he could pick up the book. He gets to the bookstore the first time, he's told they're not quite ready, come back later. Goes back the next day and is told they're sold out, check back later (I'm thinking why did they sell the book I paid for?). They give him a paid receipt so he can show that next time. He goes back yesterday and they tell him he can't pick it up because it's not in his name, but mine - well duh, my name was on the card I paid with; no place on the order form to put his name.
I called and went 'Sugarbaker' on the girl who answered- I told her the sequence of events, and that we live 30 miles from the school, he's there and I can't just turn loose and drive over there to pick it up and hand it to him. She asks if she can put me on hold and check out some things.
She finally comes back and tells me that there was a mistake - those books had never come in and I shouldn't have gotten a confirmation yet. She had no explanation for the other things; of course I apologized to her, it's not her fault, she's just a student worker. But somewhere, somehow, folks have got to realize they're being paid to do a job. Don't just say the first thing off the top of your head, and brush off customers.
Why are we as a society doing this? I want to challenge you- go over your customer service guidelines; if you've got employees, discuss with them how they should treat your customers. Ask them to remember that the customer is their real boss- if the customers quit buying, you go out of business.
Start taking care of your customers!
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
Having a purpose
I hate seeing waste. I don't care where I see it, I hate it. I hate that we're a throwaway society for the most part. I belong to a group called Free-cycle (a yahoo group- check it out in your area) just because I hate to see things get thrown away that can be used again.
For example, right now I'm working on a swap to a lady who needed some wine bottles for a craft she's working on. I don't drink wine, but I know someone who drinks an Acai berry juice mixture, which comes in bottles that look very similar to wine bottles. So I'm collecting them and going to make sure she gets them.
Anytime I see something lying on the side of the road, my first thought is 'can't that be used for something?'. It's not just the thought of landfills overflowing with usable stuff, but that's part of it; the big part is that people are not being good stewards of what God has given us.
That goes for everything - my husband doesn't like to eat leftovers, but they make a very nice lunch for me. I love to drink Gatorade, so I get the ones with the squeeze lid. When they're empty, I wash them out and freeze them for my bike rides.
I save plastic butter tubs for storing leftovers and freezing soups. I save 2-liter bottles, fill them with water and freeze them to use in our coolers when we camp. I save misprinted paper and reuse the blank areas for note paper- who cares if it's already got something on it- after I've used it up, I can shred it and use it for packing paper.
I feel the same way about people- just because a person isn't perfect (and who is?), I believe they can have a purpose. Older people have knowledge and experience that we 'younger' folks don't... and I don't think children are a punishment, either. I believe the Bible is absolutely true, and I have never seen a place where God sent children as a punishment - quite the opposite. He stopped women from having children because of the choices they were making.
I know that sometimes being a parent is tough - but the rewards are so much greater than any effort we have to put out there.
For example, right now I'm working on a swap to a lady who needed some wine bottles for a craft she's working on. I don't drink wine, but I know someone who drinks an Acai berry juice mixture, which comes in bottles that look very similar to wine bottles. So I'm collecting them and going to make sure she gets them.
Anytime I see something lying on the side of the road, my first thought is 'can't that be used for something?'. It's not just the thought of landfills overflowing with usable stuff, but that's part of it; the big part is that people are not being good stewards of what God has given us.
That goes for everything - my husband doesn't like to eat leftovers, but they make a very nice lunch for me. I love to drink Gatorade, so I get the ones with the squeeze lid. When they're empty, I wash them out and freeze them for my bike rides.
I save plastic butter tubs for storing leftovers and freezing soups. I save 2-liter bottles, fill them with water and freeze them to use in our coolers when we camp. I save misprinted paper and reuse the blank areas for note paper- who cares if it's already got something on it- after I've used it up, I can shred it and use it for packing paper.
I feel the same way about people- just because a person isn't perfect (and who is?), I believe they can have a purpose. Older people have knowledge and experience that we 'younger' folks don't... and I don't think children are a punishment, either. I believe the Bible is absolutely true, and I have never seen a place where God sent children as a punishment - quite the opposite. He stopped women from having children because of the choices they were making.
I know that sometimes being a parent is tough - but the rewards are so much greater than any effort we have to put out there.
Monday, September 1, 2008
Take a Chance
If you’re like me, you pass through towns all the time, headed somewhere else. They’ve got some interesting place, store or park, but you tell yourself, ‘I’ll stop next time.’ And of course, the next time, you don’t stop either, because you’re headed somewhere else, and you just don’t want to take the time.
Well, Florala is one of those places to me. Our oldest son and his family live in Crestview, and we usually either go through Florala going down or coming back. Every time we pass through, I’ll tell HB (Honey Bunny, aka my dear husband) “One of these days, I’m going to stop and look around, especially that wetland area on the lake.”I finally took the step – I had to bring two of our granddaughters back to their mom, so we decided to meet in Florala at the Wetlands Park, which is about half-way. As we started down we noticed two bikers coming up behind us, so L’il Red (youngest daughter, who just got her permit – Yay!) got out the camera and took a few pictures of them- they noticed and of course, had to speed up to check out who was holding the camera…
After we got the girls swapped over, L’il Red and I headed over the walkway. It’s a very simple wooden walkway, with handrails, running through the wetlands area. The walkway itself is anywhere from one to two feet above the ground, so the plants and water run under it and aren’t damaged by people passing through. Although some folks have dropped trash, for the most part, it’s a lovely spot.The walkway runs close to the water’s edge, and is under shade for its entire length. Some trees have moss, and there is also lots of other plant life. I didn’t see any animals, but I’m sure there must be some there. Four or five gazebos are spread through the walkway, so you can stop and take a break, if you like.
I did get to take a few shots, but my camera batteries are getting old, so they ran down before I was ready to quit. The next time I go back, I’ll be more prepared.The town also boasts a lot of interesting shops, too. I’ve seen Elvis standing in front of one building, just waiting for someone to come up and take his picture. The store he represents is supposed to have all kinds of goodies inside – I’ve heard their ads, and I’d like to browse for a while – not enough time this trip – again, maybe next time.
We did eat at a little café called Corbey’s Ice Cream and Deli- it used to be a drugstore, and the sign is still hung on the back wall. They’ve got old-fashioned metal stools and high tables; the food is great. They had some wonderful homemade potato salad, and the ice cream is great too! I asked if they were ‘biker friendly’ and the lady told me that she and her husband ride when they can – she said if the bikers behaved, so would she!There’s also a bike shop in town called Biker’s Choice- the sidewalk in that part of town is actually higher than the street level, and they’ve got bikes parked right outside the shop, on the sidewalk. Makes an eye-catching display- you really don’t think about the sidewalk being up that high, and your first thought is ‘how did they get that bike up there?’
So, I took a step and stopped in Florala – now I know what I want to see the next time I’m down there…Before the lawnmower
I know, I know - I'm crazy for even taking pictures like this. And DH agrees- imagine a grown woman laying in the grass, shooting a picture of weeds!
LOL- that's OK- I see beauty in all things, even weeds. God did such a good job creating all things, even weeds... of course, there are some things I don't quite see the reasoning behind, but that's OK - God knows why He does all things, and I'm going to praise Him for it. Even weeds that make a crazy lady happy.
LOL- that's OK- I see beauty in all things, even weeds. God did such a good job creating all things, even weeds... of course, there are some things I don't quite see the reasoning behind, but that's OK - God knows why He does all things, and I'm going to praise Him for it. Even weeds that make a crazy lady happy.
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