On Christmas Day we had supper at my folks' house, with the rest of the family- it's always so much fun to spend time with kids, especially on holidays. They've got so much to say, and I just love listening to them say it.
For example Reid, who just turned two, is crazy about anything John Deere - his dad is a farmer and drives a John Deere tractor, so he has every reason to think they're great. When I asked him what he got for Christmas, he said, 'a trike-cycle'. When I asked him if it was red, he just looked at me and said, "no, it was gween". What better color for a trike-cycle?
Do you remember the Cosby show episode where Rudy asked Cliff what a bunch of letters spelled? he told her 'zrbrt' and then proceeded to give her a razzberry on her cheek. Ever since, I've given my grandkids and other beloved children 'zrbrts' on their cheek or neck; they've learned that if they hold their chin up, it gives me more room under there, and then watch out! the noise is great, and the look on their face is even better. Thank you, Bill Cosby, for helping me make good memories with these wonderful kids.
Why is it that we feel so much younger than we thought our parents were at the same age?
Of all the things I regret, one of the things I wish I could change would be to go back in time, and find out more about my grandparents' lives. I remember vividly so many things about my mother's mother, like watching her stand by the sink washing dishes, singing 'hey, good lookin' by Hank Williams. Or that she always loved to drink Dr. Pepper - I wish I could find a bottle that looks like the ones from my childhood.
Monday, December 29, 2008
Nothing like a little excitement...
So I had to ride to Greenville to meet a friend/client for lunch, and to pick up some copies of her newest book, fresh from the printer. We'll be shipping complimentary copies out to newspaper religion editors and some other folks who might give us a good review and some publicity.
I love riding my bike, and I especially love riding by myself - very freeing to not have to worry about anybody else but myself, going at my own speed, whether it's 45 or 75, seeing what I want to, stopping when I want, and just being on my own. It's also a lot of fun when it registers with passengers/drivers in other vehicles when they realize that's a FEMALE riding that bike... most of them are not surprised, but every once in a while, you get some VERY funny faces. I don't care if it is almost 2009, it still seems to be a novelty for a girl to be riding her own bike.
anyway, we had lunch and a great visit; then back outside to pack everything in my bags (and pockets) and head back. To come back home, I have to take a bridge over the interstate; for some reason I got in the wrong turn lane, and only after there was no way out of that lane, did I realize I was headed onto the interstate, instead of back towards Highway 10, which is what I wanted.
I had two choices - either go into high panic mode and just sit in the middle of road, blocking traffic, or hitting the interstate and getting off at the next exit, about 15 miles away. Panic is not my usual way of handling things (well, maybe sometimes after everything is over), so I just tooled on down the ramp and onto the interstate, headed for Ft. Deposit.
Not really a big deal, except that was my first time on the interstate by myself, the traffic was very heavy, and there was quite a wind blowing. I did okay, except for one incident, when some traffic was merging onto the road, and I moved over into the left lane to give them room- some nimrod decided she needed to be my back bumper decoration and hung right behind me until I could get a clear space to move back into the right lane.
Not much a 600 pound bike and rider can do to a large sedan, other than scratch it up a bit in passing, and I don't do that kind of thing. If I could have told her a few things, I might have, but she was laughing and cutting up with her kids as she passed me- I still am not convinced she saw me, even though I was directly in front of her - I could have spit backwards and it would have hit her windshield.
I did get lots of smiles and waves from other vehicles, especially the three guys trailering their bikes somewhere - and it was a nice ride, anyway, despite some people showing their ignorance.
When I did get off at Ft. Deposit, a very nice clerk at a gas station gave me directions back towards home that did not include getting back on the interstate - I figure there's no need pushing things.
So now I'm home, got to see some new areas, got a very nice ride in, and still home in time to walk the dogs, get supper started and more importantly... GET BACK TO WORK!
I love riding my bike, and I especially love riding by myself - very freeing to not have to worry about anybody else but myself, going at my own speed, whether it's 45 or 75, seeing what I want to, stopping when I want, and just being on my own. It's also a lot of fun when it registers with passengers/drivers in other vehicles when they realize that's a FEMALE riding that bike... most of them are not surprised, but every once in a while, you get some VERY funny faces. I don't care if it is almost 2009, it still seems to be a novelty for a girl to be riding her own bike.
anyway, we had lunch and a great visit; then back outside to pack everything in my bags (and pockets) and head back. To come back home, I have to take a bridge over the interstate; for some reason I got in the wrong turn lane, and only after there was no way out of that lane, did I realize I was headed onto the interstate, instead of back towards Highway 10, which is what I wanted.
I had two choices - either go into high panic mode and just sit in the middle of road, blocking traffic, or hitting the interstate and getting off at the next exit, about 15 miles away. Panic is not my usual way of handling things (well, maybe sometimes after everything is over), so I just tooled on down the ramp and onto the interstate, headed for Ft. Deposit.
Not really a big deal, except that was my first time on the interstate by myself, the traffic was very heavy, and there was quite a wind blowing. I did okay, except for one incident, when some traffic was merging onto the road, and I moved over into the left lane to give them room- some nimrod decided she needed to be my back bumper decoration and hung right behind me until I could get a clear space to move back into the right lane.
Not much a 600 pound bike and rider can do to a large sedan, other than scratch it up a bit in passing, and I don't do that kind of thing. If I could have told her a few things, I might have, but she was laughing and cutting up with her kids as she passed me- I still am not convinced she saw me, even though I was directly in front of her - I could have spit backwards and it would have hit her windshield.
I did get lots of smiles and waves from other vehicles, especially the three guys trailering their bikes somewhere - and it was a nice ride, anyway, despite some people showing their ignorance.
When I did get off at Ft. Deposit, a very nice clerk at a gas station gave me directions back towards home that did not include getting back on the interstate - I figure there's no need pushing things.
So now I'm home, got to see some new areas, got a very nice ride in, and still home in time to walk the dogs, get supper started and more importantly... GET BACK TO WORK!
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Don't let someone steal your Christmas
We were at my MIL's house last night for our Christmas eve celebration. My hubby's three sisters were there, along with most of the rest of the family.
I'm sure Christmas at most folks' houses was like it was at ours- not as much extra money to spend on gifts, and not doing as much traveling. I'll admit, I'd allowed that to make me feel like Christmas wasn't coming this year.
But after we got there, and I started talking to the kids, I felt much better. Tanner, 2nd grade, whose letter to Santa made the paper, had to decipher one part of his letter (they print them just as the kids spell them- so cute), and we discussed his wishes for an all Alabama Christmas (I'm a big Auburn fan).
Then granddaughters Chloe, Destiny and Neveah all had to tell me what Santa brought them (he comes to their house a night early, because of blended family issues). Granddaughter Lanie also told me her latest news - she has a wonderful imagination and she always perks me up.
Grandson Hunter, who is a teenager now, is one of the sweetest, most polite young men you'll ever meet. Even when I asked about the website I'd heard was devoted to his girlfriends, he went along with the joke, teasing me right back. He's so good with his little sister, and a natural when it comes to taking care of his new baby brother.
And speaking of babies - who can turn down a chance to cuddle with a baby? They always have a smile or a giggle for you. We were lucky enough to spend last night with two babies, both as cute as can be.
Don't let the economy or your surroundings steal your Christmas - remember that there are people out there who love you and don't care if you've got a bunch of money. They love you because of who you are to them.
And remember that the real reason for our celebration is a special baby who was born a long time ago, and who gave us all the best Christmas gift ever- because He made it possible for us to get past our own sinful natures and become a part of God's kingdom.
Merry Christmas!
I'm sure Christmas at most folks' houses was like it was at ours- not as much extra money to spend on gifts, and not doing as much traveling. I'll admit, I'd allowed that to make me feel like Christmas wasn't coming this year.
But after we got there, and I started talking to the kids, I felt much better. Tanner, 2nd grade, whose letter to Santa made the paper, had to decipher one part of his letter (they print them just as the kids spell them- so cute), and we discussed his wishes for an all Alabama Christmas (I'm a big Auburn fan).
Then granddaughters Chloe, Destiny and Neveah all had to tell me what Santa brought them (he comes to their house a night early, because of blended family issues). Granddaughter Lanie also told me her latest news - she has a wonderful imagination and she always perks me up.
Grandson Hunter, who is a teenager now, is one of the sweetest, most polite young men you'll ever meet. Even when I asked about the website I'd heard was devoted to his girlfriends, he went along with the joke, teasing me right back. He's so good with his little sister, and a natural when it comes to taking care of his new baby brother.
And speaking of babies - who can turn down a chance to cuddle with a baby? They always have a smile or a giggle for you. We were lucky enough to spend last night with two babies, both as cute as can be.
Don't let the economy or your surroundings steal your Christmas - remember that there are people out there who love you and don't care if you've got a bunch of money. They love you because of who you are to them.
And remember that the real reason for our celebration is a special baby who was born a long time ago, and who gave us all the best Christmas gift ever- because He made it possible for us to get past our own sinful natures and become a part of God's kingdom.
Merry Christmas!
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
2008 Review
Okay, so looking back on 2008, what are the things I'd change? what new things did I try that are now favorites? what things need to be worked on? what things do I want to try for the first time in 2009?
I still tend to procrastinate, especially when it's things I'm not looking forward to- like most people. In '09, I plan on handing bothersome tasks better- do them as soon as possible during the day, then rewarding myself with a very enjoyable activity afterwards; this way I get them done quicker, and then I don't have time to build up dread.
I will be taking more pictures of my family - I take lots of pictures, but they tend more towards nature, and the kids around me; my brothers and I created a family calendar for our parents for Christmas, using family pictures - each person or couple will have their own month's page. Next year, I'll have more photographs to choose from, instead of having to 'borrow' some from the guys.
I will also be offering a photo session to any of the older couples and singles at church who would like one - they're on fixed incomes, and can't afford to have a good portrait of themselves; one couple's last portrait was done over ten years ago. I know they'll enjoy having it done, and their children will be glad of them later.
I'm a good bit heavier than I need to be - I will drink more water and walk more often during the week; even if I don't lose a lot of weight, I'll be healthier.
In 2008, I was more adventurous in my riding - I'll continue that, branching out even farther on my little jaunts.
I will allocate more time to writing and drawing/painting. I have some talent, but it needs to be practiced in order to improve. I am also going to schedule time several times a week to practicing and improving my guitar skills - I've got a very nice 6 string acoustic, and a lovely 12-string acoustic that are begging to be played- it's an awful waste and I won't do it any more.
I'll be more aggressive in pursuing my goals and dreams- I have lots of things I want to do and if I don't make my mind up to do them, they won't get done. When they involve another person, obviously I'm not going to jump ahead, but I will lay out my ideas clearly so they can see exactly what I'm expecting.
I've always heard it said that it's just as easy to ask forgiveness as to ask permission, but I don't hold with that too much. Too many times having to ask forgiveness for doing something that goes against someone else's wishes, will eventually hurt the relationship more than it can be repaired.
Last of all, and probably the most important, I'll cherish the time I have with my family and friends - the Bible says we aren't promised tomorrow, and I know that for certain. Several of my friends have faced very close calls, and are still with us, but that doesn't mean the next time won't be the last time.
Have a blessed Christmas!
I still tend to procrastinate, especially when it's things I'm not looking forward to- like most people. In '09, I plan on handing bothersome tasks better- do them as soon as possible during the day, then rewarding myself with a very enjoyable activity afterwards; this way I get them done quicker, and then I don't have time to build up dread.
I will be taking more pictures of my family - I take lots of pictures, but they tend more towards nature, and the kids around me; my brothers and I created a family calendar for our parents for Christmas, using family pictures - each person or couple will have their own month's page. Next year, I'll have more photographs to choose from, instead of having to 'borrow' some from the guys.
I will also be offering a photo session to any of the older couples and singles at church who would like one - they're on fixed incomes, and can't afford to have a good portrait of themselves; one couple's last portrait was done over ten years ago. I know they'll enjoy having it done, and their children will be glad of them later.
I'm a good bit heavier than I need to be - I will drink more water and walk more often during the week; even if I don't lose a lot of weight, I'll be healthier.
In 2008, I was more adventurous in my riding - I'll continue that, branching out even farther on my little jaunts.
I will allocate more time to writing and drawing/painting. I have some talent, but it needs to be practiced in order to improve. I am also going to schedule time several times a week to practicing and improving my guitar skills - I've got a very nice 6 string acoustic, and a lovely 12-string acoustic that are begging to be played- it's an awful waste and I won't do it any more.
I'll be more aggressive in pursuing my goals and dreams- I have lots of things I want to do and if I don't make my mind up to do them, they won't get done. When they involve another person, obviously I'm not going to jump ahead, but I will lay out my ideas clearly so they can see exactly what I'm expecting.
I've always heard it said that it's just as easy to ask forgiveness as to ask permission, but I don't hold with that too much. Too many times having to ask forgiveness for doing something that goes against someone else's wishes, will eventually hurt the relationship more than it can be repaired.
Last of all, and probably the most important, I'll cherish the time I have with my family and friends - the Bible says we aren't promised tomorrow, and I know that for certain. Several of my friends have faced very close calls, and are still with us, but that doesn't mean the next time won't be the last time.
Have a blessed Christmas!
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
"The Dragon Master" and Making New Friends
Got off the phone earlier with a new friend in Wales - can you imagine a little town chick like me making friends across the Big Pond?
He had something about me on a blog list, and saw that I love to read. so he contacted me and asked if I would consider reading his novel and giving him some feedback- he said he'd use my review on his website and possibly the book cover.
I agreed and he sent a copy of his book - It's called "The Dragon Master"; I was drawn in from the very beginning. The characters in the story are very realistic - some of the things they deal with are tough, like adultery, pornography and drug abuse. He allows us to see how our choices affect us and those around us, and he doesn't pull any punches, but he also does it so the reader isn't wallowing in the gutter. It's a very fine line to walk, but he does it very well.
He's working on the sequel to the book now, while he's prepping this book for the printer's. Nigel has quite a testimony - his site is called Still Small Voice Ministries. Look it over - I'm sure you'll find some very good information there.
He had something about me on a blog list, and saw that I love to read. so he contacted me and asked if I would consider reading his novel and giving him some feedback- he said he'd use my review on his website and possibly the book cover.
I agreed and he sent a copy of his book - It's called "The Dragon Master"; I was drawn in from the very beginning. The characters in the story are very realistic - some of the things they deal with are tough, like adultery, pornography and drug abuse. He allows us to see how our choices affect us and those around us, and he doesn't pull any punches, but he also does it so the reader isn't wallowing in the gutter. It's a very fine line to walk, but he does it very well.
He's working on the sequel to the book now, while he's prepping this book for the printer's. Nigel has quite a testimony - his site is called Still Small Voice Ministries. Look it over - I'm sure you'll find some very good information there.
Monday, December 15, 2008
Marketing Your Business Revisited
How does your customer service stand up to comparison?
I've had plenty of experiences with both very good and very bad customer service - in fact, one of my favorite memories of sales seminars is the story one instructor told about bad customer service. He had a very bad experience with a company, and when he tried to work things out with them, he seemed to run into every person in the company with a bad attitude. It got to the point that he asked to speak to a department manager in the company. When he finally was able to speak to him, he told him in great detail how horrible the company's customer service had been, and when the manager asked him what he expected him to do about it.
The instructor then began to name what it would take to make him feel he'd been taken care of, and the manager said that was more than what he was willing to do. The instructor told him it would be the his job in life to ruin the reputation of that company. He's done a good job, too- I think he tells that story at every seminar where he teaches. Any time I hear the name of that company, I immediately think of the salesman's story.
I tell you this because we each need to remember that any time our customers or prospects have a bad experience with our company, they don't forget it easily. We have to take a pro-active stand on customer service; if it's possible, contact customers after any sale or service and make sure they're satisfied. If they're not, find out why, and do everything you can to rectify it. I've had several companies that didn't get things right in the beginning, but their follow-up was so great and so pleasing that I'll continue to do business with them, because they care about how I feel about them.
I've had plenty of experiences with both very good and very bad customer service - in fact, one of my favorite memories of sales seminars is the story one instructor told about bad customer service. He had a very bad experience with a company, and when he tried to work things out with them, he seemed to run into every person in the company with a bad attitude. It got to the point that he asked to speak to a department manager in the company. When he finally was able to speak to him, he told him in great detail how horrible the company's customer service had been, and when the manager asked him what he expected him to do about it.
The instructor then began to name what it would take to make him feel he'd been taken care of, and the manager said that was more than what he was willing to do. The instructor told him it would be the his job in life to ruin the reputation of that company. He's done a good job, too- I think he tells that story at every seminar where he teaches. Any time I hear the name of that company, I immediately think of the salesman's story.
I tell you this because we each need to remember that any time our customers or prospects have a bad experience with our company, they don't forget it easily. We have to take a pro-active stand on customer service; if it's possible, contact customers after any sale or service and make sure they're satisfied. If they're not, find out why, and do everything you can to rectify it. I've had several companies that didn't get things right in the beginning, but their follow-up was so great and so pleasing that I'll continue to do business with them, because they care about how I feel about them.
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Marketing Your Business
How 'linked' are you to related businesses in your area? Do you cross-market with them, to help each of you grow your business? I know this has been covered time and again, but it's still worth discussing.
As a photographer, I want to expand my business into weddings and events. One way I plan to do this is to market myself to the local florists and caterers. I'll approach one or two from each category and request a partnership with them. When I'm contacted to shoot a wedding, I'll suggest my partners as my preferred vendors, and my partners will do the same for me. I hope to also work up packages with my partners, so our clients can get a discount by using all of us together.
While it will build our business base, it will also raise us from the level of vendor to trusted professionals.
What businesses can you partner with to build your business?
As a photographer, I want to expand my business into weddings and events. One way I plan to do this is to market myself to the local florists and caterers. I'll approach one or two from each category and request a partnership with them. When I'm contacted to shoot a wedding, I'll suggest my partners as my preferred vendors, and my partners will do the same for me. I hope to also work up packages with my partners, so our clients can get a discount by using all of us together.
While it will build our business base, it will also raise us from the level of vendor to trusted professionals.
What businesses can you partner with to build your business?
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Photography
I love taking pictures in and around my community - it's not a very big place, but I sure am proud of it. Lots of lovely 'hidden' places, fields, lakes, swamps and all sorts of beautiful images.
I recently entered a picture of our newest water tower, with a beautiful sunset in the background, in a statewide contest geared towards communities. I received a notice yesterday that my photograph won second place. I'm very happy about it, because it was one of those shots that just presented itself. I wasn't even thinking about photography- I had headed out the door to pick my daughter up from band practice, and when I saw the sky across the road, I went back in and got my camera.
My picture will be on the cover of the February issue of the organization's magazine.
I recently entered a picture of our newest water tower, with a beautiful sunset in the background, in a statewide contest geared towards communities. I received a notice yesterday that my photograph won second place. I'm very happy about it, because it was one of those shots that just presented itself. I wasn't even thinking about photography- I had headed out the door to pick my daughter up from band practice, and when I saw the sky across the road, I went back in and got my camera.
My picture will be on the cover of the February issue of the organization's magazine.
Monday, December 1, 2008
A Homecoming Event
The Alabama Department of Tourism is sponsoring The Year of Small Towns and Downtowns in 2010. Each town that participates receives a free historic marker; Rutledge will be participating and we'll center the Homecoming Weekend around the Primitive Baptist Church in Rutledge. It's one of the oldest churches in Crenshaw County, and since Rutledge was once the county seat, the church is even more central to the county.
We've already set dates, and we also decided to have a homecoming weekend in 2009 as well - you might say it will be our practice run.
We've come up with several ideas on how to celebrate our town and it's roots - we'll be making videos of town members telling how it was to grow up in and around Rutledge; an art show is also being planned; we'll have activities for the kids on Saturday; and Sunday we'll wind up the weekend with a community church service in the morning, dinner on the grounds and an afternoon singing with local groups.
I've also come up with an idea to have a poster and postcard design competition among the residents of Rutledge. The winning posters will be used to publicize the weekend, and the winning postcards will be reproduced and sold during the weekend. Each winning designer will get a copy of all the winning designs. It will encourage the local folks to get involved, and any money raised will go towards maintaining the church building.
Check back for more details on how the plans are developing...
We've already set dates, and we also decided to have a homecoming weekend in 2009 as well - you might say it will be our practice run.
We've come up with several ideas on how to celebrate our town and it's roots - we'll be making videos of town members telling how it was to grow up in and around Rutledge; an art show is also being planned; we'll have activities for the kids on Saturday; and Sunday we'll wind up the weekend with a community church service in the morning, dinner on the grounds and an afternoon singing with local groups.
I've also come up with an idea to have a poster and postcard design competition among the residents of Rutledge. The winning posters will be used to publicize the weekend, and the winning postcards will be reproduced and sold during the weekend. Each winning designer will get a copy of all the winning designs. It will encourage the local folks to get involved, and any money raised will go towards maintaining the church building.
Check back for more details on how the plans are developing...
Saturday, November 29, 2008
"A Breaking Heart" is at the Printer's
A Breaking Heart, the latest book by Dimple McInvale, will be published by my company, and I'm proud to announce that it's at the printer's, and should be back in time for Christmas. This is Mrs. McInvale's first novel, but it's her third book.
The book tells the story of three women who leave abusive relationships and move into the home of a country couple; the safe home becomes a real home for the three women, and while it relates some bad situations, it's a very hopeful, uplifting book. It's based on real-life events.
If you'd like to read more information about the book, visit the author's website here, or you can go directly to the book's page here.
The book tells the story of three women who leave abusive relationships and move into the home of a country couple; the safe home becomes a real home for the three women, and while it relates some bad situations, it's a very hopeful, uplifting book. It's based on real-life events.
If you'd like to read more information about the book, visit the author's website here, or you can go directly to the book's page here.
Thanksgiving thoughts
Well, Thanksgiving has passed for another year. We had all the fixings at MIL's house, and got to see family members we haven't seen in a while; then off to my mom's house, where we had sandwiches, finger foods and a veggie tray, which was a very nice change. It's hard to eat two big meals in a day, especially when you're not used to it.
It was good to see everyone, but we missed a lot of loved ones... hubby's daughter couldn't come because her husband was on call and couldn't leave the base. She's missed seeing him the last two Thanksgivings, so we certainly understood why she wanted to stay home with him. She's a good daughter, mom and wife and we're proud of her. My daughter's family spent the day with her honey's family, so we missed seeing them too, but we understand - it's hard to get everywhere, when there's such an extended family to see.
Hubby's son and his wife came, but their kids were all visiting other relatives, and my older son is back overseas, so we missed about half of our family. It's tough having a blended family, and even more tough during the holidays.
But we have lots to be thankful for - our grandchildren are healthy and happy, they have good parents and good homes, they're intelligent and they're being raised by responsible people.
My husband's mother and both my parents are still living, and they're all in reasonably good health;while they may have problems from time to time, they have a good quality of life, and we all live near enough to see them often.
Hubby and I both enjoy life and have lots of interests to keep up going - besides our immediate family, our church family always has things going on, and of course our riding friends are ALWAYS up to something!
Last but not least, we're thankful that we live in a country where we've got to right to speak our minds, and to believe as we wish, whether it suits someone else or not.
What are YOU thankful for?
It was good to see everyone, but we missed a lot of loved ones... hubby's daughter couldn't come because her husband was on call and couldn't leave the base. She's missed seeing him the last two Thanksgivings, so we certainly understood why she wanted to stay home with him. She's a good daughter, mom and wife and we're proud of her. My daughter's family spent the day with her honey's family, so we missed seeing them too, but we understand - it's hard to get everywhere, when there's such an extended family to see.
Hubby's son and his wife came, but their kids were all visiting other relatives, and my older son is back overseas, so we missed about half of our family. It's tough having a blended family, and even more tough during the holidays.
But we have lots to be thankful for - our grandchildren are healthy and happy, they have good parents and good homes, they're intelligent and they're being raised by responsible people.
My husband's mother and both my parents are still living, and they're all in reasonably good health;while they may have problems from time to time, they have a good quality of life, and we all live near enough to see them often.
Hubby and I both enjoy life and have lots of interests to keep up going - besides our immediate family, our church family always has things going on, and of course our riding friends are ALWAYS up to something!
Last but not least, we're thankful that we live in a country where we've got to right to speak our minds, and to believe as we wish, whether it suits someone else or not.
What are YOU thankful for?
Friday, November 21, 2008
Insurance...
I am always amazed when people say they buy life insurance 'in case something happens to them' - I have only ever heard of two people who left this earth without dying - Enoch and Elijah. Everybody else has to be prepared for the time when they die; which brings me to my point.
How is your business covered? I'm not talking about life insurance, because I'm sure you've got that covered.
I'm talking about the day to day things that happen in your business:
*what happens to your clients when you die or are unable to work? Do you have a plan in place to make sure they're taken care of?
*what about your current projects? will someone you trust be able to step in and complete the work, or will someone be able to help your current clients find a new partner to finish their work?
*have you already discussed partnering for this with a trusted person in your business? someone whose work ethics are on the same keel as yours, and who can work with your clients to their satisfaction...
*do you have your passwords and file backups in a place that someone can find?
*are you up to date on notes on your clients and prospects, so someone stepping in won't have to start from scratch?
After making sure my family is taken care of, I want to make sure my clients are cared for; I want the transition to their new designer to be an easy one.
Are you prepared?
How is your business covered? I'm not talking about life insurance, because I'm sure you've got that covered.
I'm talking about the day to day things that happen in your business:
*what happens to your clients when you die or are unable to work? Do you have a plan in place to make sure they're taken care of?
*what about your current projects? will someone you trust be able to step in and complete the work, or will someone be able to help your current clients find a new partner to finish their work?
*have you already discussed partnering for this with a trusted person in your business? someone whose work ethics are on the same keel as yours, and who can work with your clients to their satisfaction...
*do you have your passwords and file backups in a place that someone can find?
*are you up to date on notes on your clients and prospects, so someone stepping in won't have to start from scratch?
After making sure my family is taken care of, I want to make sure my clients are cared for; I want the transition to their new designer to be an easy one.
Are you prepared?
Thursday, November 20, 2008
Refracted Stripes
I love Flickr! You can find the most gorgeous images on there, and I'm always inspired by some of the things I see.
I found this amazing shot this morning that I'd love to share with you - it's called Refracted Stripes, and it makes me want to go out and shoot all day long- which is always fun, but it's hard to get anything else done, while I'm traipsing around the countryside, saying, 'oh look at that' and snapping everything in sight. Check out MacBern's photostream, and then get out there and shoot something!
I found this amazing shot this morning that I'd love to share with you - it's called Refracted Stripes, and it makes me want to go out and shoot all day long- which is always fun, but it's hard to get anything else done, while I'm traipsing around the countryside, saying, 'oh look at that' and snapping everything in sight. Check out MacBern's photostream, and then get out there and shoot something!
Fluid Design
For as long as I've been designing websites, I've almost always designed using a fluid design- one that is set up so that it 'fits' the screen of the viewer, as often as possible. Obviously you can't fit everyone's screen, because some people use a small portion of their monitor to view the internet, saving another portion for their other open apps.
However, I feel this is the best way to go for most sites. If I use tables in the design, I set them so that they only use a percentage of the screen size. I did have a client who had purchased a template online, and we made some adjustments to it to customize for their site - he actually pulled out a ruler and showed me that the lines on each side of the design were not the same width, even though I had them set at the same pixel width. He also wanted the site to be perfect on his monitor, which was a fairly large one...
The problem with making a site 'perfect' on your monitor? You're forgetting that your customer is who you should be building your site for. My goal for website customers is to make a site that visitors can easily navigate, will enjoy viewing, looks good on their monitor, and is easily readable to them. That usually means, among other things, that I don't set exact font sizes in the design, but rather set it at 'large' or 'medium' according to how the font looks.
I do this for one simple reason - if I am on a site with tiny print, I will hold my CTRL button and use the scroll wheel on my mouse to enlarge it - if that doesn't work, I usually don't hang around very long. Life is too short to strain my eyes trying to read something in microscopic print.
Any site needs to look good, but it's most important that viewers can use it easily - and if they can't, what is that saying to them? "If you're not cool enough to use this site, then we don't want your business" is what it says to me. And I don't want to be responsible for a site that's saying that.
However, I feel this is the best way to go for most sites. If I use tables in the design, I set them so that they only use a percentage of the screen size. I did have a client who had purchased a template online, and we made some adjustments to it to customize for their site - he actually pulled out a ruler and showed me that the lines on each side of the design were not the same width, even though I had them set at the same pixel width. He also wanted the site to be perfect on his monitor, which was a fairly large one...
The problem with making a site 'perfect' on your monitor? You're forgetting that your customer is who you should be building your site for. My goal for website customers is to make a site that visitors can easily navigate, will enjoy viewing, looks good on their monitor, and is easily readable to them. That usually means, among other things, that I don't set exact font sizes in the design, but rather set it at 'large' or 'medium' according to how the font looks.
I do this for one simple reason - if I am on a site with tiny print, I will hold my CTRL button and use the scroll wheel on my mouse to enlarge it - if that doesn't work, I usually don't hang around very long. Life is too short to strain my eyes trying to read something in microscopic print.
Any site needs to look good, but it's most important that viewers can use it easily - and if they can't, what is that saying to them? "If you're not cool enough to use this site, then we don't want your business" is what it says to me. And I don't want to be responsible for a site that's saying that.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Relax!
The current assignment on the DPS forums is themed "Relax"; this is my entry.
My original idea was to have DH and L'il Red on hubby's bike, riding slightly behind me on mine. Red would take a picture using her P&S, catching her dad's shoulder and side of his head, framing me on my bike.
Well, you know what they say about 'best laid plans'... DH's bike is still in pieces in the carport, and the parts aren't in yet.
So... I just rolled my bike in front of my green backdrop and took some pictures.
Then I stepped out into the road in front of my house and snapped some more pictures. If you were one of the folks driving by while I was waiting to get in the road, no I haven't lost my mind, just having some fun.
Then I stepped back inside after breaking down the set (that backdrop support sure was very cost-effective, but it's not the quickest to take apart).
Photoshop is wonderful, and it wasn't too long before I had the shot I wanted (shown above). I've gotten several comments on it so far, and while it's not perfect, I'm pleased overall with how it turned out.
Now, if we can just get DH's bike back on the road- besides the problems he's already having, we got a recall notice in the mail this week, regarding problems with the gears - my favorite part of the letter refers to 'may cause rear wheel to lock up, which may result in a wreck, injury or even death' - four letters regarding this were sent to the previous owner, and I can't imagine why they didn't take care of this- there's no cost and it seems like a rear wheel lockup would put a serious dent in your riding fun.
My original idea was to have DH and L'il Red on hubby's bike, riding slightly behind me on mine. Red would take a picture using her P&S, catching her dad's shoulder and side of his head, framing me on my bike.
Well, you know what they say about 'best laid plans'... DH's bike is still in pieces in the carport, and the parts aren't in yet.
So... I just rolled my bike in front of my green backdrop and took some pictures.
Then I stepped out into the road in front of my house and snapped some more pictures. If you were one of the folks driving by while I was waiting to get in the road, no I haven't lost my mind, just having some fun.
Then I stepped back inside after breaking down the set (that backdrop support sure was very cost-effective, but it's not the quickest to take apart).
Photoshop is wonderful, and it wasn't too long before I had the shot I wanted (shown above). I've gotten several comments on it so far, and while it's not perfect, I'm pleased overall with how it turned out.
Now, if we can just get DH's bike back on the road- besides the problems he's already having, we got a recall notice in the mail this week, regarding problems with the gears - my favorite part of the letter refers to 'may cause rear wheel to lock up, which may result in a wreck, injury or even death' - four letters regarding this were sent to the previous owner, and I can't imagine why they didn't take care of this- there's no cost and it seems like a rear wheel lockup would put a serious dent in your riding fun.
Sunday, November 9, 2008
Reflections of Gold
Some of our bike group leave out on Friday, headed for a long weekend trip to the foothills of the Smoky Mountains. We won't be going- hubby can't get the days off.
One of my favorite places to go is the mountains - I love to stop beside the road, where the river is running over rocks; barefoot, freezing my toes off wading through the shallows (even in the hottest part of summer); driving along the river, waving to those who are canoeing or rafting in the deeper parts, wishing I was part of it.
My retirement dream is to live in the mountains; maybe owning a small motel, where we cook for visitors in the summer and fall, and spend the winter snuggled up in front of a fire...
One of my favorite places to go is the mountains - I love to stop beside the road, where the river is running over rocks; barefoot, freezing my toes off wading through the shallows (even in the hottest part of summer); driving along the river, waving to those who are canoeing or rafting in the deeper parts, wishing I was part of it.
My retirement dream is to live in the mountains; maybe owning a small motel, where we cook for visitors in the summer and fall, and spend the winter snuggled up in front of a fire...
Saturday, November 8, 2008
New bike???
One of my sisters-in-law has decided she'd like to learn to ride, so she can get a motorcycle of her own. I'm very excited for her- since I've only been riding my own for the last two years, I can remember how much fun it is to learn.
She's asked me if I will help her learn a bit, and of course I told her I'd be glad to.
I can't wait to see what bike she gets!
She's asked me if I will help her learn a bit, and of course I told her I'd be glad to.
I can't wait to see what bike she gets!
Seasonal ideas
If you have a website, do you update it for seasonal changes? Obviously, you don't want to do a total remake several times a year, but it is always a good idea to acknowledge the holidays and seasons of the year.
My favorite search engine is Google; if you've never seen the way they honor different holidays, visit this page - it's their 'museum' of logos.
I know you can't do something on the same scale, but you can support your favorite holidays. As an example, during the Christmas holidays, I make a slight change to my logo, then link it from my main page, to a retelling of the Christmas story from the book of Luke. Starting this next year, I plan to do something similar for the Easter season - after all, the main purpose of Christmas' gift is fulfilled in Easter.
Think about it, and see what ideas you and your designer can come up with to celebrate the holidays and seasons that are important to you.
My favorite search engine is Google; if you've never seen the way they honor different holidays, visit this page - it's their 'museum' of logos.
I know you can't do something on the same scale, but you can support your favorite holidays. As an example, during the Christmas holidays, I make a slight change to my logo, then link it from my main page, to a retelling of the Christmas story from the book of Luke. Starting this next year, I plan to do something similar for the Easter season - after all, the main purpose of Christmas' gift is fulfilled in Easter.
Think about it, and see what ideas you and your designer can come up with to celebrate the holidays and seasons that are important to you.
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
New Year's marketing pieces
Have you completed your 2009 marketing piece yet? This year I'll be giving away calendars to my best clients and prospects.
I've got several very nice photographs I've taken of the local area, so I'll have one photo per month, with a large monthly calendar opposite. I will add some dates that are important to my clients, and leave room for them to add their own information as well.
I want to make sure that I give something that is usable by my clients, and that will also remind clients of my business everytime they use it.
What will you be doing for the new year?
I've got several very nice photographs I've taken of the local area, so I'll have one photo per month, with a large monthly calendar opposite. I will add some dates that are important to my clients, and leave room for them to add their own information as well.
I want to make sure that I give something that is usable by my clients, and that will also remind clients of my business everytime they use it.
What will you be doing for the new year?
Leavin' on a Jet Plane
My older son has been home for the past four weeks, and today he flies back to Germany. I'm so proud of him and all he does; he and all the other military make sacrifices that the rest of us don't even realize.
While he was home, we had 'Thanksgiving' at my folks' house and most everyone was able to be there.
Sometime after the first of the year, he'll be transferring stateside, so he'll be closer to us - we'll be able to visit him at his base. I'm so excited!
While he was home, we had 'Thanksgiving' at my folks' house and most everyone was able to be there.
Sometime after the first of the year, he'll be transferring stateside, so he'll be closer to us - we'll be able to visit him at his base. I'm so excited!
Thursday, October 23, 2008
A Simple Thank You Note
Last week, I had reason to send out several thank-you notes. Instead of picking up a package of small note cards, I decided to make my own.
I bought a package of half-fold greeting cards, and designed a 'thank you' header using a pretty font, and printed them. I printed out some of my favorite photos in 4x6 size, and mounted them to the front of the cards, then wrote a note inside.
I made sure to add the title and date of each photograph, so the recipient knew it was a handmade card, and sent them off. So far I've gotten compliments on three cards... I'm glad I was able to do this- hand-written correspondence has almost become a thing of the past; I love to get mail like this, and I'm sure others do too.
If you've got the time and patience to do this, it's a good investment of your time. At the very least, have some notecards designed for you, and handwrite notes to folks you appreciate. If you're trying to build a relationship with a business associate, what better way than to send something handwritten?
I bought a package of half-fold greeting cards, and designed a 'thank you' header using a pretty font, and printed them. I printed out some of my favorite photos in 4x6 size, and mounted them to the front of the cards, then wrote a note inside.
I made sure to add the title and date of each photograph, so the recipient knew it was a handmade card, and sent them off. So far I've gotten compliments on three cards... I'm glad I was able to do this- hand-written correspondence has almost become a thing of the past; I love to get mail like this, and I'm sure others do too.
If you've got the time and patience to do this, it's a good investment of your time. At the very least, have some notecards designed for you, and handwrite notes to folks you appreciate. If you're trying to build a relationship with a business associate, what better way than to send something handwritten?
Pastor Appreciation Week
Our church just finished up pastor appreciation week. Last Sunday, we surprised our pastor and his wife with a card we all signed and a lunch in their honor. The kids in children's church made posters telling them how great they are, and made signs for the church yard.
Then on Wednesday night, we had an old-fashioned ice cream social, which everyone enjoyed.
We also encouraged our church family to send cards and letters of appreciation to them during the week.
I hope you let your family, church and community leaders know how much you appreciate the work they do- it's a tough job, and a lot of times, a thankless job as well. Everyone loves to tell how bad a job someone is doing, but they don't always tell the good about folks. Build your folks up, and they'll work that much harder to do their job well!
Then on Wednesday night, we had an old-fashioned ice cream social, which everyone enjoyed.
We also encouraged our church family to send cards and letters of appreciation to them during the week.
I hope you let your family, church and community leaders know how much you appreciate the work they do- it's a tough job, and a lot of times, a thankless job as well. Everyone loves to tell how bad a job someone is doing, but they don't always tell the good about folks. Build your folks up, and they'll work that much harder to do their job well!
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
My 'new' camera
I love my 'new'camera- I bought a Canon Rebel XT from someone who was upgrading, and I've really enjoyed it. There were several things I've had to learn, to get the best photos out of it, but as I tell my friend Toni - "Google is our friend"...
I've found several good pages that show how to figure out which settings to use in different pictures: shade, night shots, football games, inside, etc... I hate having such a nice camera and not be able to get good pictures other than the automatic settings. Here's one page I found that has several good charts to help you learn how to be the 'ultimate exposure computer'. I've been taking pictures for a lot longer than I care to admit, but I'd never bothered to learn how the f-stop, shutter speed and ISO all work together. On my original 35mm camera, after I set the film speed, I knew how to adjust for different shots, but putting the film speed into the mix with this totally manually set camera seemed to throw a kink in my thinking. Anyway, I've printed out the charts, laminated them and have them in my bag's pocket, so I can check them for better starting places.
I'm confident that my pictures will improve, and I'll have to do a lot less post-camera work on them.
I've found several good pages that show how to figure out which settings to use in different pictures: shade, night shots, football games, inside, etc... I hate having such a nice camera and not be able to get good pictures other than the automatic settings. Here's one page I found that has several good charts to help you learn how to be the 'ultimate exposure computer'. I've been taking pictures for a lot longer than I care to admit, but I'd never bothered to learn how the f-stop, shutter speed and ISO all work together. On my original 35mm camera, after I set the film speed, I knew how to adjust for different shots, but putting the film speed into the mix with this totally manually set camera seemed to throw a kink in my thinking. Anyway, I've printed out the charts, laminated them and have them in my bag's pocket, so I can check them for better starting places.
I'm confident that my pictures will improve, and I'll have to do a lot less post-camera work on them.
Monday, October 13, 2008
On Speaking Publicly
This past weekend, I had to represent our town at a family reunion. Most of the family had moved away from our area, so the hostess asked me to speak on the history of the town.
I contacted someone from our historical society and got some great information, and sat down to write my speech. I'm sure that my speech wouldn't win any prizes, but I do think I did rather well, and most folks seemed to enjoy listening to what I had to say. Here are some of the things I did.
First I thought about how long I wanted to speak. I personally despise listening to long, dry, boring political speeches, and I hate to think about putting anyone else through that. I decided that 15 minutes was my limit, and I hoped to keep it less than that.
Next, I thought about all the things I wanted to say - I made about three pages of notes and ideas. My own personality is quirky, to say the least, so I knew I needed the speech to sound like me, and not a professional writer. I knew I wanted to bring some humor about living in a small town, but I didn't want to sound like I was making fun of our town. I also knew I wanted to pique the interest of those who were learning about Rutledge, so they'd be encouraged to learn more on their own.
You also need to know that the hostess found out I ride a motorcycle, so she asked me to invite as many of my riding friends as possible, to escort me in. The clothes I ride in (jeans, t-shirt, leather gloves and boots, etc) do not lend themselves to what you normally expect from a speaker, so I knew I had to keep things light.
Then I sat down and wrote what I'd like to say, adding things from my notes, and deleting things, until it flowed like my normal speaking pattern. I printed it out on half-sheets stapled together on one corner to keep them together, and read through it in front of my mirror until I was comfortable with how it sounded, practicing the parts where I tended to stumble over phrases.
I didn't memorize the speech, but I was so familiar with it, that I could work through it without looking like I was reading it, and I was able to vary a little on what I said.
By the time I was in front of the group, I was comfortable enough to make eye contact with different areas of the crowd while speaking.
I'm not going to say it was hugely successful, because only the listeners know for sure. But I was able to move through it, without my knees knocking too badly, and I did have several people tell me that they had learned something new about our town. That was my goal, so I feel good about it.
By the way, my friends sat in several areas of the group, so I was able to look at them while I spoke- it's amazing how a friendly face in a crowd can help you get through public speaking!
I contacted someone from our historical society and got some great information, and sat down to write my speech. I'm sure that my speech wouldn't win any prizes, but I do think I did rather well, and most folks seemed to enjoy listening to what I had to say. Here are some of the things I did.
First I thought about how long I wanted to speak. I personally despise listening to long, dry, boring political speeches, and I hate to think about putting anyone else through that. I decided that 15 minutes was my limit, and I hoped to keep it less than that.
Next, I thought about all the things I wanted to say - I made about three pages of notes and ideas. My own personality is quirky, to say the least, so I knew I needed the speech to sound like me, and not a professional writer. I knew I wanted to bring some humor about living in a small town, but I didn't want to sound like I was making fun of our town. I also knew I wanted to pique the interest of those who were learning about Rutledge, so they'd be encouraged to learn more on their own.
You also need to know that the hostess found out I ride a motorcycle, so she asked me to invite as many of my riding friends as possible, to escort me in. The clothes I ride in (jeans, t-shirt, leather gloves and boots, etc) do not lend themselves to what you normally expect from a speaker, so I knew I had to keep things light.
Then I sat down and wrote what I'd like to say, adding things from my notes, and deleting things, until it flowed like my normal speaking pattern. I printed it out on half-sheets stapled together on one corner to keep them together, and read through it in front of my mirror until I was comfortable with how it sounded, practicing the parts where I tended to stumble over phrases.
I didn't memorize the speech, but I was so familiar with it, that I could work through it without looking like I was reading it, and I was able to vary a little on what I said.
By the time I was in front of the group, I was comfortable enough to make eye contact with different areas of the crowd while speaking.
I'm not going to say it was hugely successful, because only the listeners know for sure. But I was able to move through it, without my knees knocking too badly, and I did have several people tell me that they had learned something new about our town. That was my goal, so I feel good about it.
By the way, my friends sat in several areas of the group, so I was able to look at them while I spoke- it's amazing how a friendly face in a crowd can help you get through public speaking!
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
Turning Flips
Don't you just love little kids? They're so open to most anything, and they have such wonderful imaginations.
One of our younger granddaughters, who is three, just had a baby brother. We went to visit them all, and she asked if I would come outside and watch her jump on the trampoline. While she jumped and showed off, I asked her some questions, just to keep her talking. I asked if she could turn a flip while she jumped, and without hesitation, she said, 'No, the neighbors don't like me to turn flips, 'cause I might flip over their wall (fence).'
She has a wonderful imagination, and always has something funny to say. I know that we adults don't need to walk around spouting whatever comes to mind, but wouldn't it be great if we could lift the weight that keeps our minds from coming up with these wonderful stories?
One of our younger granddaughters, who is three, just had a baby brother. We went to visit them all, and she asked if I would come outside and watch her jump on the trampoline. While she jumped and showed off, I asked her some questions, just to keep her talking. I asked if she could turn a flip while she jumped, and without hesitation, she said, 'No, the neighbors don't like me to turn flips, 'cause I might flip over their wall (fence).'
She has a wonderful imagination, and always has something funny to say. I know that we adults don't need to walk around spouting whatever comes to mind, but wouldn't it be great if we could lift the weight that keeps our minds from coming up with these wonderful stories?
Are you ready?
What would it take for you to move up a level in your organization? Would you need training of some sort? Is there information that you would need to let you serve in that position? Are there people you'd need to learn from, so you could do the job effectively?
If you want to move up, make sure you're prepared ahead of time. You never know when opportunity might strike...
If you want to move up, make sure you're prepared ahead of time. You never know when opportunity might strike...
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Back into the sunshine
Only two weeks ago, I was preparing myself to lose a very dear friend. We prayed over him, and trusted God that He would work things out for good, but I still traveled through the Valley of the Shadow of Death.
I know each of us owes a life, and I know none of us will get off this world alive, unless Jesus comes back first. It doesn't make it any easier to think about losing your friends and loved ones.
Well, today I'm celebrating! I saw with my own eyes how God handles things. My friend is up walking around, talking, seeing and hearing - even though doctors were afraid he would lose all those things. He spoke to us this morning about concerns for our town, and he was as sharp as ever. He came in to the meeting under his own power. He heard what we said, saw us, and was able to tell us what he thought about things; he remembered details from earlier discussions, and knew details about the projects we're currently working on.
I struggle each day to praise God in all things, good and bad;I have a song that encourages me to do just that - it's one of my favorite songs "I'll Praise You in this Storm" by Casting Crowns; here are the words:
I was sure by now,God, that You would have reached down
and wiped our tears away,
stepped in and saved the day.
But once again, I say amen
and it's still raining
as the thunder rolls
I barely hear You whisper through the rain,
"I'm with you"
and as Your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise
the God who gives and takes away.
Chorus:
And I'll praise you in this storm
and I will lift my hands
for You are who You are
no matter where I am
and every tear I've cried
You hold in your hand
You never left my side
and though my heart is torn
I will praise You in this storm
I remember when I stumbled in the wind
You heard my cry to You
and raised me up again
my strength is almost gone how can I carry on
if I can't find You
and as the thunder rolls
I barely hear You whisper through the rain
"I'm with you"
and as Your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise
the God who gives and takes away
Chorus
I lift my eyes onto the hills
where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord, the maker of heaven and earth
I lift my eyes onto the hills
where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord, the maker of heaven and earth
(words by Mark Hall/music by Mark Hall and Bernie Herms)
I know each of us owes a life, and I know none of us will get off this world alive, unless Jesus comes back first. It doesn't make it any easier to think about losing your friends and loved ones.
Well, today I'm celebrating! I saw with my own eyes how God handles things. My friend is up walking around, talking, seeing and hearing - even though doctors were afraid he would lose all those things. He spoke to us this morning about concerns for our town, and he was as sharp as ever. He came in to the meeting under his own power. He heard what we said, saw us, and was able to tell us what he thought about things; he remembered details from earlier discussions, and knew details about the projects we're currently working on.
I struggle each day to praise God in all things, good and bad;I have a song that encourages me to do just that - it's one of my favorite songs "I'll Praise You in this Storm" by Casting Crowns; here are the words:
I was sure by now,God, that You would have reached down
and wiped our tears away,
stepped in and saved the day.
But once again, I say amen
and it's still raining
as the thunder rolls
I barely hear You whisper through the rain,
"I'm with you"
and as Your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise
the God who gives and takes away.
Chorus:
And I'll praise you in this storm
and I will lift my hands
for You are who You are
no matter where I am
and every tear I've cried
You hold in your hand
You never left my side
and though my heart is torn
I will praise You in this storm
I remember when I stumbled in the wind
You heard my cry to You
and raised me up again
my strength is almost gone how can I carry on
if I can't find You
and as the thunder rolls
I barely hear You whisper through the rain
"I'm with you"
and as Your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise
the God who gives and takes away
Chorus
I lift my eyes onto the hills
where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord, the maker of heaven and earth
I lift my eyes onto the hills
where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord, the maker of heaven and earth
(words by Mark Hall/music by Mark Hall and Bernie Herms)
Monday, September 29, 2008
What I learned
I'll hit the half-century mark in just a few days - boy, that sounds old! I don't feel that old, but apparently I am, because my kids say so... they think some of my views on life are wacky and outdated, but I know why I feel that way.
Some of my favorite memories of childhood involve what's now called classic TV. I grew up when 'Leave it To Beaver', 'I Love Lucy', 'Bonanza', 'Dick Van Dyke' and 'Andy Griffith' were seen on television. I look at the world today through eyes that grew up on those shows, and I learned the truths of life watching them.
Uncle Jed was always as meek as a lamb, but wise as a serpent. He saw the best in folks, always tried to help out the less fortunate, but he didn't let folks take advantage of him, and he stood up for what was right. He didn't let all that money change him from the good man he was.
Laura Petrey always met Rob at the door, glad to see him, and she was sexy in her capri pants.
Lucy's hairbrained schemes rarely worked, but she always had good sense of humor when she messed up.
Ward wanted his boys to behave their best, and sometimes went too far in his expectations, but he also was man enough to admit when he'd messed up, and would ask their forgiveness when he did.
Pa Cartwirght expected his sons to work hard and play fair. He used the power his money and land brought him to help those around him, and make the whole community a better place.
My kids and I watched a movie called "Pleasantville" when it first came on television, and their response to the black and white section was 'that is so boring'... as a parent in today's society, I think sometimes boring might be a good thing. School shootings, teen pregnancy, drugs, and a general sense from most folks that there's no such thing as the sanctity of human life - those things might be exciting, but I don't think that makes them very good.
Some of my favorite memories of childhood involve what's now called classic TV. I grew up when 'Leave it To Beaver', 'I Love Lucy', 'Bonanza', 'Dick Van Dyke' and 'Andy Griffith' were seen on television. I look at the world today through eyes that grew up on those shows, and I learned the truths of life watching them.
Uncle Jed was always as meek as a lamb, but wise as a serpent. He saw the best in folks, always tried to help out the less fortunate, but he didn't let folks take advantage of him, and he stood up for what was right. He didn't let all that money change him from the good man he was.
Laura Petrey always met Rob at the door, glad to see him, and she was sexy in her capri pants.
Lucy's hairbrained schemes rarely worked, but she always had good sense of humor when she messed up.
Ward wanted his boys to behave their best, and sometimes went too far in his expectations, but he also was man enough to admit when he'd messed up, and would ask their forgiveness when he did.
Pa Cartwirght expected his sons to work hard and play fair. He used the power his money and land brought him to help those around him, and make the whole community a better place.
My kids and I watched a movie called "Pleasantville" when it first came on television, and their response to the black and white section was 'that is so boring'... as a parent in today's society, I think sometimes boring might be a good thing. School shootings, teen pregnancy, drugs, and a general sense from most folks that there's no such thing as the sanctity of human life - those things might be exciting, but I don't think that makes them very good.
Time Management
Last week I wrote about contact management- today I'd like to say a little about time management.
We all have the same amount of time each week to get things done. There are so many hours each day that are already spoken for - you have to sleep, eat and refresh yourself physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally.
So, you've got to make the remaining hours count. There are all kinds of time management systems on the market, so there's sure to be a system that meets your needs.
I use the Franklin-Covey paper system in combination with Outlook. My daily tasks go into my datebook, with recurring tasks set in Outlook to remind me. I've tweaked both systems until they work the way I want. I use some FC forms; some forms I've found on other forms on 43 Folders that I like, and other forms I've created on my computer to print as I need them.
Most every seminar or class on time management that I've attended has used the pickle jar story. The basic story is that if you've got to get a whole bunch of stuff in a pickle jar, start out with the big stuff, then move down the list; in other words, plan for your most important tasks, then work the others in as you've got time.
My point is that everyone should be able to find some system that works for them. Once you find it, USE it... it does no good at all to have a beautiful leather planner with all kinds of forms, dated pages and envelopes in it, if all you do is lug it around and show it off to people. It's kinda like those folks who own a gorgeous Yamaha Raider motorcycle that's completely dressed out with every chrome bling on it that's available; but they're afraid they'll get it dirty so it sits in their garage - it's basically a huge paperweight...
I have two planners I use - one has 1 1/2 inch rings, and the other has 2 inch rings. It depends on how full my life is at the moment - right now, things are very busy so I use the bigger rings to hold more 'stuff'. In a few months, things may back off and I'll move back to the smaller rings.
If you're not sure what system might work for you, check out some of the following places to get some ideas. Franklin Covey, 43 Folders, DayRunner, Outlook/Palm (if you're running a computer with Windows, you've got Outlook Express, which may work for you, but you may need more). And don't be afraid to ask others what system they use- they'll be flattered you want their input, and they may have some ideas you hadn't considered...
We all have the same amount of time each week to get things done. There are so many hours each day that are already spoken for - you have to sleep, eat and refresh yourself physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally.
So, you've got to make the remaining hours count. There are all kinds of time management systems on the market, so there's sure to be a system that meets your needs.
I use the Franklin-Covey paper system in combination with Outlook. My daily tasks go into my datebook, with recurring tasks set in Outlook to remind me. I've tweaked both systems until they work the way I want. I use some FC forms; some forms I've found on other forms on 43 Folders that I like, and other forms I've created on my computer to print as I need them.
Most every seminar or class on time management that I've attended has used the pickle jar story. The basic story is that if you've got to get a whole bunch of stuff in a pickle jar, start out with the big stuff, then move down the list; in other words, plan for your most important tasks, then work the others in as you've got time.
My point is that everyone should be able to find some system that works for them. Once you find it, USE it... it does no good at all to have a beautiful leather planner with all kinds of forms, dated pages and envelopes in it, if all you do is lug it around and show it off to people. It's kinda like those folks who own a gorgeous Yamaha Raider motorcycle that's completely dressed out with every chrome bling on it that's available; but they're afraid they'll get it dirty so it sits in their garage - it's basically a huge paperweight...
I have two planners I use - one has 1 1/2 inch rings, and the other has 2 inch rings. It depends on how full my life is at the moment - right now, things are very busy so I use the bigger rings to hold more 'stuff'. In a few months, things may back off and I'll move back to the smaller rings.
If you're not sure what system might work for you, check out some of the following places to get some ideas. Franklin Covey, 43 Folders, DayRunner, Outlook/Palm (if you're running a computer with Windows, you've got Outlook Express, which may work for you, but you may need more). And don't be afraid to ask others what system they use- they'll be flattered you want their input, and they may have some ideas you hadn't considered...
Friday, September 26, 2008
Contact Management
I sometimes get mired down by 'pushy paper' - you know, those little notes,letters, ads and other things on your desk that you need to deal with, but somehow can't find time to do. They end up getting pushed around from one corner of my desk to another.
Most of the things in my little stack are things that could taken care of very quickly, but I put them off, and I rationalize that since they're such little things, I can get them done later.
I've made a conscious decision to set aside 30 minutes at least once a day to work through these items. For example, I had a stack of business cards sitting on my desk that I've collected on my runs around town -they've now been entered into my Outlook contacts list, with notes on who the person is and how I met them. I've also edited my list of categories in Outlook, so they're more effective.
I also make notes in any appropriate fields in Outlook - if I only know that the business manager's name is Jim, I enter that, sorting the contact to list it under only the business name, but I also add a task to find out a little more about Jim- last name, hobbies, etc. Then if I think he'll make a good source of assistance to someone else, I list him in that category, too. If I can get several of his business cards, I'll pass them along to folks who can use his help. I'll make any notes I can in in the miscellaneous field.
I'm not trying to sell you on Outlook; I love it and use it as much as possible, even looking for new ways to use it. But you might have a different system that works for you. The point is to use it for all it's worth.
Besides Outlook on my computers, I also use the Franklin Covey paper system (2 pages per day and sometimes that's not enough!); my cell phone is a Palm Centro which syncs to Outlook and keeps as much information as possible on it.
One other suggestion- no matter what your system, make sure you keep it safe. If it's a paper system, make sure you keep your planner with you; if you're using a computer-based program, back it up often. I speak from experience: several years ago I bought an external hard drive that I keep all my documents and files on and it's backed up onto another computer. However, I failed to back up my Outlook files, and when my system crashed, I lost all my emails, and even worse, my notes and contacts. Thankfully I had printed my contacts list to a pdf file, but the notes I had are gone. Some I could recreate, but not all.
Remember, if it's important enough to you to save in the first place, make a back up!
Most of the things in my little stack are things that could taken care of very quickly, but I put them off, and I rationalize that since they're such little things, I can get them done later.
I've made a conscious decision to set aside 30 minutes at least once a day to work through these items. For example, I had a stack of business cards sitting on my desk that I've collected on my runs around town -they've now been entered into my Outlook contacts list, with notes on who the person is and how I met them. I've also edited my list of categories in Outlook, so they're more effective.
I also make notes in any appropriate fields in Outlook - if I only know that the business manager's name is Jim, I enter that, sorting the contact to list it under only the business name, but I also add a task to find out a little more about Jim- last name, hobbies, etc. Then if I think he'll make a good source of assistance to someone else, I list him in that category, too. If I can get several of his business cards, I'll pass them along to folks who can use his help. I'll make any notes I can in in the miscellaneous field.
I'm not trying to sell you on Outlook; I love it and use it as much as possible, even looking for new ways to use it. But you might have a different system that works for you. The point is to use it for all it's worth.
Besides Outlook on my computers, I also use the Franklin Covey paper system (2 pages per day and sometimes that's not enough!); my cell phone is a Palm Centro which syncs to Outlook and keeps as much information as possible on it.
One other suggestion- no matter what your system, make sure you keep it safe. If it's a paper system, make sure you keep your planner with you; if you're using a computer-based program, back it up often. I speak from experience: several years ago I bought an external hard drive that I keep all my documents and files on and it's backed up onto another computer. However, I failed to back up my Outlook files, and when my system crashed, I lost all my emails, and even worse, my notes and contacts. Thankfully I had printed my contacts list to a pdf file, but the notes I had are gone. Some I could recreate, but not all.
Remember, if it's important enough to you to save in the first place, make a back up!
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
He's comin' home!!!
I finally caught up with our middle son this afternoon. He's stationed in Germany, and will be coming home next month.
I knew he was scheduled for some time off, but we never know until a little before he leaves whether it's going to work out. He's finalized his flight in, and given us a pickup time.
He'll get to be home for about a month, so my mom is planning on cooking an early Thanksgiving so he can celebrate with us. He's always liked 'green stuff' (pistachio salad) so I'm sure that will be on the menu.
We really have an old-fashioned, right-out-of-Southern Living spread at Thanksgiving and Christmas - turkey and dressing (my mother's is always just right), sweet potato casserole, peas, butter beans, rolls, cranberry sauce (the kind that slides right out of the can), and usually some great salads and casseroles. Coconut cake and pies - who can argue with that kind of meal?
I'm so looking forward to seeing him - he's never met his nephew (whose birthday was yesterday) and he's only seen some of the other nieces and nephews a few times, so he's in for a real treat. I'm sure we'll have to arrange some kind of day just for the kids to crawl around on him and let him know how proud they are of him.
I'm very proud of my son and all the others who serve our country- even if they serve in peacetime, they make a sacrifice no one else can imagine, and they don't ask for any recognition - I remember the first time we picked him up at the airport - a group of folks from a military support group were there, and every time a few soldiers came through the gate, they stood and applauded. Most of the men and women looked slightly embarrassed, as if they'd prefer to just walk on without all the attention. Next time you see a soldier or other military person, say thank you...
I knew he was scheduled for some time off, but we never know until a little before he leaves whether it's going to work out. He's finalized his flight in, and given us a pickup time.
He'll get to be home for about a month, so my mom is planning on cooking an early Thanksgiving so he can celebrate with us. He's always liked 'green stuff' (pistachio salad) so I'm sure that will be on the menu.
We really have an old-fashioned, right-out-of-Southern Living spread at Thanksgiving and Christmas - turkey and dressing (my mother's is always just right), sweet potato casserole, peas, butter beans, rolls, cranberry sauce (the kind that slides right out of the can), and usually some great salads and casseroles. Coconut cake and pies - who can argue with that kind of meal?
I'm so looking forward to seeing him - he's never met his nephew (whose birthday was yesterday) and he's only seen some of the other nieces and nephews a few times, so he's in for a real treat. I'm sure we'll have to arrange some kind of day just for the kids to crawl around on him and let him know how proud they are of him.
I'm very proud of my son and all the others who serve our country- even if they serve in peacetime, they make a sacrifice no one else can imagine, and they don't ask for any recognition - I remember the first time we picked him up at the airport - a group of folks from a military support group were there, and every time a few soldiers came through the gate, they stood and applauded. Most of the men and women looked slightly embarrassed, as if they'd prefer to just walk on without all the attention. Next time you see a soldier or other military person, say thank you...
Marketing Your Business
You know your business more than anyone else - what is your marketing strategy? Starting today, I'll occasionally give you ideas to market your business that are will hopefully be quirky enough to get a prospect's attention, and isn't that one point of marketing?
Today's suggestion: seeds.
If you are in any business that can help another business grow, mail out small seed packets attached to a marketing piece discussing ways you can help 'grow your business'. To further personalize the pieces, gear seed choices to the prospect- a grocery store might get vegetable seeds, wheat seeds for a bakery and flower seeds for a florist's shop.
It's okay to have your marketing pieces mass-produced, but leave yourself a little leeway in putting those individual touches on them. I've designed some marketing postcards for my own business - the front is pre-printed, but I've left the back blank so I have the choice to hand write a message or print it from my desktop, then add my signature.
Make sure your prospects see that you've got time for them- that may be the deciding reason they choose to do business with you.
Today's suggestion: seeds.
If you are in any business that can help another business grow, mail out small seed packets attached to a marketing piece discussing ways you can help 'grow your business'. To further personalize the pieces, gear seed choices to the prospect- a grocery store might get vegetable seeds, wheat seeds for a bakery and flower seeds for a florist's shop.
It's okay to have your marketing pieces mass-produced, but leave yourself a little leeway in putting those individual touches on them. I've designed some marketing postcards for my own business - the front is pre-printed, but I've left the back blank so I have the choice to hand write a message or print it from my desktop, then add my signature.
Make sure your prospects see that you've got time for them- that may be the deciding reason they choose to do business with you.
Monday, September 22, 2008
Customer Service
We were at the local Verizon store on Saturday, because I've got to upgrade my phone. We looked around at the different options, and I spoke to the salesman a couple of times with questions.
When I decided on the phone I wanted, I told the salesman, who then told me that he would be glad to sell me a phone, but it would benefit me more if I went home and ordered it online- there were a wider variety of phones online, more savings available, the phone would be delivered the next business day, and my store credit would work online, so I'd actually get a better phone for the same price.
That's good customer service in my book. This young man acted very professionally, answering all my questions, besides working with another customer (and not making either one of us feel as if we were being too much trouble). He put my benefit above his own, so I plan on going back to that store for any accessories I need to get for my phone.
How do you live intentionally (see here or here) in your business? Do your employees know how to put the customer's needs first?
When I decided on the phone I wanted, I told the salesman, who then told me that he would be glad to sell me a phone, but it would benefit me more if I went home and ordered it online- there were a wider variety of phones online, more savings available, the phone would be delivered the next business day, and my store credit would work online, so I'd actually get a better phone for the same price.
That's good customer service in my book. This young man acted very professionally, answering all my questions, besides working with another customer (and not making either one of us feel as if we were being too much trouble). He put my benefit above his own, so I plan on going back to that store for any accessories I need to get for my phone.
How do you live intentionally (see here or here) in your business? Do your employees know how to put the customer's needs first?
How thankful are you? part 2
We had to go into Montgomery on Saturday for Reid's birthday party, then afterwards by to see my folks.
We had also planned on upgrading two of our cell phones, so when my husband got off work, we headed over to the Verizon store. I figured out what I wanted, then went up to the counter. The salesman there suggested that we get online and order the phones because of the increased savings (how's that for customer service?), so that's what we did.
I was anxious to get home, because I had some things to get done. When we stopped at a small convenience store so my husband could get a soft drink, a lady hurried up and asked if we had a bike tool kit (hubby was on his bike). Of course, we said yes, and walked over. Their lights weren't working, so we stayed with them while they figured out the problem (thankfully, only a blown fuse). Since we were all headed in the same direction, we rode along with them, in case of more trouble... they ended up staying at the hotel near our house and came to church with us yesterday.
When we first stopped, I was ready to move on because of chores, but I was really glad we got held up- not only were we able to help someone who needed it, but we also made some new friends (who by the way, are about as crazy as we are - LOL).
Whether you're a Christian or not, remember that things happen for a reason - what starts out as a problem often can turn into a blessing if you'll just let it!
On another note- happy birthday to Reid, who is two today, and to Talan, who will be born sometime today. Papaw and Granny love you both!
We had also planned on upgrading two of our cell phones, so when my husband got off work, we headed over to the Verizon store. I figured out what I wanted, then went up to the counter. The salesman there suggested that we get online and order the phones because of the increased savings (how's that for customer service?), so that's what we did.
I was anxious to get home, because I had some things to get done. When we stopped at a small convenience store so my husband could get a soft drink, a lady hurried up and asked if we had a bike tool kit (hubby was on his bike). Of course, we said yes, and walked over. Their lights weren't working, so we stayed with them while they figured out the problem (thankfully, only a blown fuse). Since we were all headed in the same direction, we rode along with them, in case of more trouble... they ended up staying at the hotel near our house and came to church with us yesterday.
When we first stopped, I was ready to move on because of chores, but I was really glad we got held up- not only were we able to help someone who needed it, but we also made some new friends (who by the way, are about as crazy as we are - LOL).
Whether you're a Christian or not, remember that things happen for a reason - what starts out as a problem often can turn into a blessing if you'll just let it!
On another note- happy birthday to Reid, who is two today, and to Talan, who will be born sometime today. Papaw and Granny love you both!
Saturday, September 20, 2008
What's Your (tag) Line?
Does your business have a tag line? You know, like "Coke- it's the real thing"; or "Pepsi- the choice of a new generation" (just to be fair, ya know.)
Sometimes it can be hard to come up with a tag line. It needs to be something that is catchy and tells a little bit about the personality of your business. One great way to come up with a tag line is to brainstorm with some of your trusted employees and customers. One person trying to come up with ideas can be difficult, but working within a group can be fun and inventive (and eye-opening, too).
One 'rule' to remember - there are no stupid ideas when you're brainstorming. Make sure each person knows that everyone's ideas will be considered. The junior stock boy's ideas will be treated the same as the boss's suggestions.
Jot down each idea - even if it sounds dumb, it might trigger a very good response from someone else. And in the worst case, if it's completely silly, the laughter can relieve stress.
And speaking of humor- if you're having trouble getting started, tell everyone to come up with the craziest idea they can. Sometimes thinking around corners can bring out some good ideas that will really work.
You can always bring in your professional designer to help, and he or she will have some great ideas too. Your designer can fine-tune things and give you some tips on how best to word things, but remember, you know your business better than anyone else, so you should have some input into the process.
Sometimes it can be hard to come up with a tag line. It needs to be something that is catchy and tells a little bit about the personality of your business. One great way to come up with a tag line is to brainstorm with some of your trusted employees and customers. One person trying to come up with ideas can be difficult, but working within a group can be fun and inventive (and eye-opening, too).
One 'rule' to remember - there are no stupid ideas when you're brainstorming. Make sure each person knows that everyone's ideas will be considered. The junior stock boy's ideas will be treated the same as the boss's suggestions.
Jot down each idea - even if it sounds dumb, it might trigger a very good response from someone else. And in the worst case, if it's completely silly, the laughter can relieve stress.
And speaking of humor- if you're having trouble getting started, tell everyone to come up with the craziest idea they can. Sometimes thinking around corners can bring out some good ideas that will really work.
You can always bring in your professional designer to help, and he or she will have some great ideas too. Your designer can fine-tune things and give you some tips on how best to word things, but remember, you know your business better than anyone else, so you should have some input into the process.
I'll never be the same...
On Wednesday, Aug. 1 2007, I attended my first mission as a PGR member. We honored a fallen PGR member who was also retired Air Force. He was killed riding from one military funeral to another one.
Before we got to the cemetery, I kept thinking 'I can't do this' - since my son and son in law are both serving in the Army, I didn't know how to handle my feelings. But as I stood on that flag line, sweat running down my back, the sun in my face, gripping the flag pole, trying hard not to cry, suddenly I felt the flag on my left- it brushed my shoulder, and gently caressed my face. The vet who was holding that flag smiled at me and pulled the flag back towards it's pole. Then they gave the command for us to come to attention - they fired the guns, presented the flags, and the lone rider gunned his engine and rode away, his flag flying.
I could write ten pages, and it would never be enough to tell how that felt - to know I was there honoring someone I didn't know. The family walking by, saying 'thank you for being here' - and all I could say was 'it's an honor to be here'...
I'll never be the same.
Before we got to the cemetery, I kept thinking 'I can't do this' - since my son and son in law are both serving in the Army, I didn't know how to handle my feelings. But as I stood on that flag line, sweat running down my back, the sun in my face, gripping the flag pole, trying hard not to cry, suddenly I felt the flag on my left- it brushed my shoulder, and gently caressed my face. The vet who was holding that flag smiled at me and pulled the flag back towards it's pole. Then they gave the command for us to come to attention - they fired the guns, presented the flags, and the lone rider gunned his engine and rode away, his flag flying.
I could write ten pages, and it would never be enough to tell how that felt - to know I was there honoring someone I didn't know. The family walking by, saying 'thank you for being here' - and all I could say was 'it's an honor to be here'...
I'll never be the same.
Friday, September 19, 2008
How thankful are you?
I've been reminded through several things this week that I am called to be thankful in all things- not just the good things, but the bad as well. The Bible says "all things work together for good for those who are called according to His purpose". I've had a rough time over a situation going on, and I had just about given up on things working out, but God reminded me to pray and turn things over to Him. Almost immediately afterwards, I found out that things are going to work out, and will be better than I expected.
One of my favorite Bible stories is in Genesis, the story of Isaac's father wanting to find a wife for him. He sent a servant back to their homeland to find one from among his kinfolks; I was reading the story the other day and a phrase caught my attention: while the servant was looking for a wife for Isaac, he prayed, asking God to give him guidance. The Bible says "and while he was still praying" God answered his prayer (emphasis added). We're so quick to think God isn't listening, or that He won't answer us, that we forget how often He answers "while we were still praying"...
Please remember to be thankful for the good and bad things in your life- you never know what will come from them.
Johnny Appleseed
Oh, the Lord's been good to me, and so I thank the Lord
for giving me, the things I need, the sun and the rain and the apple seed;
Oh, He's been good to me!
A little girl I used to know, sang this as her blessing at mealtime. It's from the Disney short, Johnny Appleseed. I've always thought that was a sweet way to say thanks for what we have.
Are we thankful for what we have? That's something I struggle with every day. I want to let God know that I'm thankful for what He's done for me, but I let other things get in the way. And I have more things than ever to be thankful for- our family is doing well and growing (a new grandbaby due any time!) we're doing some much-needed work to our house, my business is growing. One of my goals is to stay in a thankful attitude and to keep the main thing, the main thing.
Like the old song says, when things get bad, start counting your blessings. You'll be glad you did!
One of my favorite Bible stories is in Genesis, the story of Isaac's father wanting to find a wife for him. He sent a servant back to their homeland to find one from among his kinfolks; I was reading the story the other day and a phrase caught my attention: while the servant was looking for a wife for Isaac, he prayed, asking God to give him guidance. The Bible says "and while he was still praying" God answered his prayer (emphasis added). We're so quick to think God isn't listening, or that He won't answer us, that we forget how often He answers "while we were still praying"...
Please remember to be thankful for the good and bad things in your life- you never know what will come from them.
Johnny Appleseed
Oh, the Lord's been good to me, and so I thank the Lord
for giving me, the things I need, the sun and the rain and the apple seed;
Oh, He's been good to me!
A little girl I used to know, sang this as her blessing at mealtime. It's from the Disney short, Johnny Appleseed. I've always thought that was a sweet way to say thanks for what we have.
Are we thankful for what we have? That's something I struggle with every day. I want to let God know that I'm thankful for what He's done for me, but I let other things get in the way. And I have more things than ever to be thankful for- our family is doing well and growing (a new grandbaby due any time!) we're doing some much-needed work to our house, my business is growing. One of my goals is to stay in a thankful attitude and to keep the main thing, the main thing.
Like the old song says, when things get bad, start counting your blessings. You'll be glad you did!
The Accidental Salesperson
A few years ago I was offered a short-term position as a radio ad salesperson; to prepare for that job I visited my favorite bookstore and found a copy of the book "The Accidental Salesperson" by Chris Lytle. It's been one of the best investments I ever made for my career.
Lytle uses unorthodox methods to make his points, including suggestions for movies to watch on how to NOT be a successful salesperson. And like a good preacher, he finds lessons in all kinds of situations, including an airport shoe shine man.
Make sure you read all the way to the end of the book - there's a special section on Chris' website that is accessible only to readers of the book.
And if you're thinking "But I'm not a salesperson", remember, everybody is a salesperson in some part of their life. While the book is geared towards advertising sales, it can be translated to other types of marketing.
This is a great system, and Chris also offers marketing emails several times a week, that are also helpful.
If you need a good boost in your sales career, find this book and buy it. At about $18, it's worth every penny. Buy it, read and study it, and get the system in gear. You'll be glad you did.
Lytle uses unorthodox methods to make his points, including suggestions for movies to watch on how to NOT be a successful salesperson. And like a good preacher, he finds lessons in all kinds of situations, including an airport shoe shine man.
Make sure you read all the way to the end of the book - there's a special section on Chris' website that is accessible only to readers of the book.
And if you're thinking "But I'm not a salesperson", remember, everybody is a salesperson in some part of their life. While the book is geared towards advertising sales, it can be translated to other types of marketing.
This is a great system, and Chris also offers marketing emails several times a week, that are also helpful.
If you need a good boost in your sales career, find this book and buy it. At about $18, it's worth every penny. Buy it, read and study it, and get the system in gear. You'll be glad you did.
Thursday, September 18, 2008
The Right to Life
I wrote a post a few weeks ago about Obama's statement on when he believes children should be eligible for human rights. I still stand behind what I said, but I do have some thoughts that are related.
I read a devotional this morning from a young woman who had an abortion years ago, and suffered in silence for many years. She thought God couldn't forgive her, and she also thought that she was the only Christian who had ever had an abortion, so she felt others wouldn't accept her if they knew.
How sad that must have been- I cannot imagine going through something like that on my own. Part of her hurt and loneliness is due to people who are pro-life and don't carefully choose their words. When we speak out on our beliefs, we need to make sure that we're doing it in love. We are standing up for helpless children who can't stand up for themselves; when we do this, we need to make sure we're not stepping on those women who have decided to have an abortion because they don't think they have any other option.
I believe that a child is human at conception; I believe that all people have the right to live their lives, whether it' a child who may have health, physical or mental problems, or an older person who has gone past the point when they are totally self-sufficient, and need help taking care of their needs. I believe all people are valuable, no matter what their circumstances.
I'm willing to stand up and tell anyone what I believe; but I need to be very careful that while I'm trying to save one life, I'm not destroying another. I also need to make sure that when I ask a young woman to choose life for her unborn child, I am willing to step up and help her in whatever way she needs it, so she can choose life.
No matter whether we're pro-life or pro-abortion, we need to make sure we're ready to stand with these women when they make their decision, and be ready to support them afterwards.
I'm going to make sure I do this - are you willing to make the same choice?
I read a devotional this morning from a young woman who had an abortion years ago, and suffered in silence for many years. She thought God couldn't forgive her, and she also thought that she was the only Christian who had ever had an abortion, so she felt others wouldn't accept her if they knew.
How sad that must have been- I cannot imagine going through something like that on my own. Part of her hurt and loneliness is due to people who are pro-life and don't carefully choose their words. When we speak out on our beliefs, we need to make sure that we're doing it in love. We are standing up for helpless children who can't stand up for themselves; when we do this, we need to make sure we're not stepping on those women who have decided to have an abortion because they don't think they have any other option.
I believe that a child is human at conception; I believe that all people have the right to live their lives, whether it' a child who may have health, physical or mental problems, or an older person who has gone past the point when they are totally self-sufficient, and need help taking care of their needs. I believe all people are valuable, no matter what their circumstances.
I'm willing to stand up and tell anyone what I believe; but I need to be very careful that while I'm trying to save one life, I'm not destroying another. I also need to make sure that when I ask a young woman to choose life for her unborn child, I am willing to step up and help her in whatever way she needs it, so she can choose life.
No matter whether we're pro-life or pro-abortion, we need to make sure we're ready to stand with these women when they make their decision, and be ready to support them afterwards.
I'm going to make sure I do this - are you willing to make the same choice?
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Happiness reigns, even in sadness
Our youngest grandson Reid's birthday is next week, and we'll celebrate his party this Saturday. He likes John Deere stuff, because his daddy feeds cows and drives a tractor (what better reason?); he'll be two.
We're also expecting another grandson next week, on Reid's birthday as well. This will be #9 for us: four boys and five girls. We're so blessed to have so many wonderful grandkids - they're all beautiful intelligent children (and I am NOT prejudiced a bit). Each one is a joy to be around, and I couldn't be more proud of them.
The happiness they give us helps out in tough times, too. We're facing the possible loss of two friends - while I'm trying to be positive and remember that God is in control, I'm human. I know each of us will die at some point, but when it's a friend or family member, it's hard to face.
I'm sad, because when we lose them, I'll miss them. I'm happy, because I know they'll be in heaven and I'll see them again one day. I know once they get to heaven, there won't be any more illness for them.
A word for you- if you've got loved ones, tell them how you feel. It may be your last chance... if you've got children or grandchildren, give them an extra hug and some sugar (that's what my grandma used to call a kiss, just in case you're not from around here). It will sweeten you up.
If you're not sure about heaven and whether you're going, please take the time to find out. I'd hate for you to miss such a good thing. If you don't have someone you can ask, you're welcome to contact me. I'd love to share the good news I have with you...
We're also expecting another grandson next week, on Reid's birthday as well. This will be #9 for us: four boys and five girls. We're so blessed to have so many wonderful grandkids - they're all beautiful intelligent children (and I am NOT prejudiced a bit). Each one is a joy to be around, and I couldn't be more proud of them.
The happiness they give us helps out in tough times, too. We're facing the possible loss of two friends - while I'm trying to be positive and remember that God is in control, I'm human. I know each of us will die at some point, but when it's a friend or family member, it's hard to face.
I'm sad, because when we lose them, I'll miss them. I'm happy, because I know they'll be in heaven and I'll see them again one day. I know once they get to heaven, there won't be any more illness for them.
A word for you- if you've got loved ones, tell them how you feel. It may be your last chance... if you've got children or grandchildren, give them an extra hug and some sugar (that's what my grandma used to call a kiss, just in case you're not from around here). It will sweeten you up.
If you're not sure about heaven and whether you're going, please take the time to find out. I'd hate for you to miss such a good thing. If you don't have someone you can ask, you're welcome to contact me. I'd love to share the good news I have with you...
Monday, September 15, 2008
Thoughts on the Weekend
It's been a long weekend... our town's mayor collapsed at work earlier in the week, and they found a plum-sized tumor near his speech center. Husband and I drove up to see him and his wife on Friday morning- things look pretty bleak, but we are all praying; and I believe that God is able to heal JD and bring him back home to finish the work he's started. Until that time, the rest of us are going to work as hard as we can, keep praying, and try to make sure that our little town is in the same good shape when he comes home as when he left.
Then Friday night our band/football team had to travel over three hours to the game (on the Mississippi state line). Whose idea is it to set these things up, and do they not care that gas is now $4 a gallon? Sure, we could have stayed home, but I want to be there for my child at every chance I get. We finally made it home and got into bed around 1 AM.
Up at 6 to get to the park for our bike group's poker run (this one benefits families in distress in our area). We had a very good turnout and raised about $600, which was VERY good- this was our first try at a poker run like this. We finished everything up around 2 and headed out.
After we left the park, we ran into some other friends of ours, who invited us to a wedding (yes, here in the south, that kind of thing happens). On the way there, we had a nice shower, so we sat in wet jeans during the ceremony (that's part of riding too). It was a sweet ceremony, and made me realize how fortunate I am that my husband and I have made a life together.
We finally made it home around 4 or so, got showered and cleaned up, and settled in for the night. I have learned/remembered some lessons that I'd like to share:
I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help. My help [cometh] from the LORD, which made heaven and earth. He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber. Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep. The LORD [is] thy keeper: the LORD [is] thy shade upon thy right hand. The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night. The LORD shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul. The LORD shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.
Then Friday night our band/football team had to travel over three hours to the game (on the Mississippi state line). Whose idea is it to set these things up, and do they not care that gas is now $4 a gallon? Sure, we could have stayed home, but I want to be there for my child at every chance I get. We finally made it home and got into bed around 1 AM.
Up at 6 to get to the park for our bike group's poker run (this one benefits families in distress in our area). We had a very good turnout and raised about $600, which was VERY good- this was our first try at a poker run like this. We finished everything up around 2 and headed out.
After we left the park, we ran into some other friends of ours, who invited us to a wedding (yes, here in the south, that kind of thing happens). On the way there, we had a nice shower, so we sat in wet jeans during the ceremony (that's part of riding too). It was a sweet ceremony, and made me realize how fortunate I am that my husband and I have made a life together.
We finally made it home around 4 or so, got showered and cleaned up, and settled in for the night. I have learned/remembered some lessons that I'd like to share:
- everybody has problems - if you can get past your own 'stuff' and make others feel welcome, or cared for, you're doing good.
- some people are just naturally negative about everything- take it in stride when you can, but sometimes you just can't handle negative statements- when that happens, step away and regroup. Don't let a negative person make you doubt who you are, or what you are capable of doing.
- you can do a lot more than you think you can.
- for those of you who are Christians - God is in control, and His hands hold the future. Don't give up until the end.
I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help. My help [cometh] from the LORD, which made heaven and earth. He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber. Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep. The LORD [is] thy keeper: the LORD [is] thy shade upon thy right hand. The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night. The LORD shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul. The LORD shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.
Thursday, September 11, 2008
We will never forget
Today is a day of remembrance for me. Seven years ago, my older son was a senior in high school, and as the events of the day unfolded, we knew things were changing.
When he got home from school that afternoon, he said "Mom, today has made me realize what I've got to do." By Christmas, he had enlisted in the Army, and within a few weeks of graduation, he shipped off for basic training.
I know military service isn't for everyone - it takes a special person to make the sacrifices a military life requires. I'm proud that my son is willing to make that sacrifice.
I am not saying I want us at war, and I certainly want my son and his buddies to come home. I'd much rather know I can drive to where my son is, and give him a hug when I want to.
But I want them all brought home in a way that doesn't put them in more danger than they're in now.
Let's finish the job we started, and then get our guys and gals out of there...
When he got home from school that afternoon, he said "Mom, today has made me realize what I've got to do." By Christmas, he had enlisted in the Army, and within a few weeks of graduation, he shipped off for basic training.
I know military service isn't for everyone - it takes a special person to make the sacrifices a military life requires. I'm proud that my son is willing to make that sacrifice.
I am not saying I want us at war, and I certainly want my son and his buddies to come home. I'd much rather know I can drive to where my son is, and give him a hug when I want to.
But I want them all brought home in a way that doesn't put them in more danger than they're in now.
Let's finish the job we started, and then get our guys and gals out of there...
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Why are some people so heartless?
I let my basset baby out this morning to 'take care of his business', and I saw a scrawny, dirty face peek at me from around my back corner. Caleb, who loves everybody and everything, barked and called the little dog around to us. She came around the house, looking as if she was expecting to be beaten, and sat at my feet.
I couldn't help it- I had to give her a good rub and 'make big' over her. She didn't look like she'd eaten in about two weeks, and her white coat is so thin that her skin is sunburned. You can see her ribs and her spine, and her behind looks raw.
I fed her and put out some cool water, and right now she's lying at the foot of my back steps, waiting for me to come back outside and pet her some more. Her belly is full, and there is plenty more food where that came from; for now she's content just to rest and (hopefully) put some meat on her bones. Every time I go out the backdoor, she 'grins' and whines at me, and she'll walk right beside me as I go around the yard.
I hope that she's just gotten lost and hasn't had the opportunity to eat, because otherwise, it means someone has intentionally starved and mistreated her. Our two cats have walked right up and sniffed her, and she hasn't so much as lifted an eyebrow at them. She just lays there and lets them sniff.
I've listed her in Craigslist, and at the local vet's office, in case her owners are looking for her - we had some folks come through after Gustav hit the coast. If not, I guess we've got a new dog... I've always said there's a sign in our yard that only dogs and cats can see - it says "free food -see lady at the door".
I think we'll call her 'Lucky'.
I couldn't help it- I had to give her a good rub and 'make big' over her. She didn't look like she'd eaten in about two weeks, and her white coat is so thin that her skin is sunburned. You can see her ribs and her spine, and her behind looks raw.
I fed her and put out some cool water, and right now she's lying at the foot of my back steps, waiting for me to come back outside and pet her some more. Her belly is full, and there is plenty more food where that came from; for now she's content just to rest and (hopefully) put some meat on her bones. Every time I go out the backdoor, she 'grins' and whines at me, and she'll walk right beside me as I go around the yard.
I hope that she's just gotten lost and hasn't had the opportunity to eat, because otherwise, it means someone has intentionally starved and mistreated her. Our two cats have walked right up and sniffed her, and she hasn't so much as lifted an eyebrow at them. She just lays there and lets them sniff.
I've listed her in Craigslist, and at the local vet's office, in case her owners are looking for her - we had some folks come through after Gustav hit the coast. If not, I guess we've got a new dog... I've always said there's a sign in our yard that only dogs and cats can see - it says "free food -see lady at the door".
I think we'll call her 'Lucky'.
Drill Here, Drill Now
Aaron Tippin's new song "Drill Here, Drill Now" is becoming the anthem for the American Solutions movement. Check out the song here - we as Americans need to step up and insist that our government leaders do what it takes to start drilling for oil on our own soil.
We can also start looking for other solutions to our dependence on foreign oil. Check out T Boone Pickens' site for other ways to be independent of other countries. There's no one way to do it, but if we all work together and find many types of energy, we can be the country we should be.
We can also start looking for other solutions to our dependence on foreign oil. Check out T Boone Pickens' site for other ways to be independent of other countries. There's no one way to do it, but if we all work together and find many types of energy, we can be the country we should be.
Tuesday, September 9, 2008
Days of Frustration...
This weekend just ending has had some rough edges. Ballgame Friday night, up early and to the church to pick peanuts off the vine for our upcoming peanut boil (we got 3 large trashbags full!); Saturday evening we helped chaperone a teenage party for some friends' daughters. Sunday is always full, between Sunday School and church in the morning (I teach children's church), lunch at MIL's house, children's play practice on Sunday afternoon, then back to church for evening worship. Then last night's meeting left me feeling drained...
I know I shouldn't let things push me past my breaking point, but it happens sometimes, just the same. Too much drama from too many directions all at once, and I'm feeling overwhelmed. I'm still not back to my normal, happy self - I'm not claiming to be a happy camper all the time, but for the most part I operate on a pretty even keel.
I know there are some things that I need to do to prevent this from happening. First, I need to spend more time praying and studying my Bible, so I know where I'm supposed to be (I notice that when I get to this point, my mind tends to start worrying about things that don't come under my authority).
Second, I need to make sure I'm getting the rest I need - when I start feeling like this, I need to get away, either by walking, riding, reading or listening to music.
Third, I need to talk it over with someone - mostly it's my husband, but it can be others as well. The main thing is I need to say out loud what the problem is, so it loses it's power on me.
I feel better now, and I can get back to work...
I know I shouldn't let things push me past my breaking point, but it happens sometimes, just the same. Too much drama from too many directions all at once, and I'm feeling overwhelmed. I'm still not back to my normal, happy self - I'm not claiming to be a happy camper all the time, but for the most part I operate on a pretty even keel.
I know there are some things that I need to do to prevent this from happening. First, I need to spend more time praying and studying my Bible, so I know where I'm supposed to be (I notice that when I get to this point, my mind tends to start worrying about things that don't come under my authority).
Second, I need to make sure I'm getting the rest I need - when I start feeling like this, I need to get away, either by walking, riding, reading or listening to music.
Third, I need to talk it over with someone - mostly it's my husband, but it can be others as well. The main thing is I need to say out loud what the problem is, so it loses it's power on me.
I feel better now, and I can get back to work...
Monday, September 8, 2008
Straightening out the curves...
This spring, my husband and I, along with several of our friends, drove up to Seneca, SC, to attend a biker revival.
The revival runs from Thursday through Sunday; we headed up early to get in a few days of rest and mountain riding. I'd been hearing about the Tail of the Dragon for several months, and I knew I needed to ride it, because ever since learning to ride last year, sharp curves have been my biggest challenge.
I believe God gave me my bike (due to many reasons I may cover in another entry), and I know He has promised to take care of me in all circumstances. I just needed to learn to trust Him in curves... so one of my goals during the week was to ride the Dragon, if at all possible.
DH and I talked to some of the others in our group, and we decided we'd leave out on Friday morning and be on the road by 8 AM to get there and back by supper (about 120 miles one way, through curvy small country roads). We saw some beautiful country and I got a TON of practice on curves; we didn't realize it but the road we took to Deal's Gap is nicknamed Hellbender...
I was escorted on my ride by some very nice guys- besides my husband, I had Robert, Donnie and last but certainly not least, my riding buddy Byron.
Robert knew how nervous I was about the ride, so before we left, he told me he'd had his morning devotional and had found a verse that God specifically sent to me. Isaiah 45:2 says in part, "I will go before you And make the crooked places straight"; I spoke that verse to myself on a regular basis during the day.
The ride was exactly what I needed- by the time we got back that afternoon, I had perfect confidence in God's ability to take care of me, and confidence in myself, that He'd given me the knowledge to do something I'd set out to do.
You see, I knew in my head how to handle those curves:
I'm a much better rider than I was, and it was all because I looked my fears in the eye, and took God at His word.
Keep your chin up!
The revival runs from Thursday through Sunday; we headed up early to get in a few days of rest and mountain riding. I'd been hearing about the Tail of the Dragon for several months, and I knew I needed to ride it, because ever since learning to ride last year, sharp curves have been my biggest challenge.
I believe God gave me my bike (due to many reasons I may cover in another entry), and I know He has promised to take care of me in all circumstances. I just needed to learn to trust Him in curves... so one of my goals during the week was to ride the Dragon, if at all possible.
DH and I talked to some of the others in our group, and we decided we'd leave out on Friday morning and be on the road by 8 AM to get there and back by supper (about 120 miles one way, through curvy small country roads). We saw some beautiful country and I got a TON of practice on curves; we didn't realize it but the road we took to Deal's Gap is nicknamed Hellbender...
I was escorted on my ride by some very nice guys- besides my husband, I had Robert, Donnie and last but certainly not least, my riding buddy Byron.
Robert knew how nervous I was about the ride, so before we left, he told me he'd had his morning devotional and had found a verse that God specifically sent to me. Isaiah 45:2 says in part, "I will go before you And make the crooked places straight"; I spoke that verse to myself on a regular basis during the day.
The ride was exactly what I needed- by the time we got back that afternoon, I had perfect confidence in God's ability to take care of me, and confidence in myself, that He'd given me the knowledge to do something I'd set out to do.
You see, I knew in my head how to handle those curves:
- keep your chin up so you're looking on out past your bike's fender to see what's coming up instead of worrying about what's right in front of you
- use your clutch and brakes to control how the bike traveled through the switchbacks
- keep speed as constant as possible- not so fast that the bike travels over the line, but fast enough to keep the bike moving smoothly
- adjust your sitting position so you're giving the bike as much flexibility as it needs
- relax on the bike so you don't wear yourself out
I'm a much better rider than I was, and it was all because I looked my fears in the eye, and took God at His word.
Keep your chin up!
Friday, September 5, 2008
Patriot Guard
I am a very proud member of the Patriot Guard Riders. I'm not proud of what I do, but proud that I'm able to ride with such a wonderful group of folks, who do the right thing, even when it's not comfortable or popular.
I could describe how it feels to stand at parade rest in the hot sun, holding a flag, honoring a fallen hero, their family and friends while they mourn, but words aren't enough.
The breeze brushes the flag against your face, tears well up and run down your face, your chest expands til it's ready to burst, from pride and sorrow and thankfulness to this person who has made the ultimate sacrifice.
My son serves in the military, my son-in-law serves in the military; I've had a brother, an uncle, cousins, grandfathers, brothers-in-law who have served in the past; I'm proud of each one of them, and I ride for them.
I'm not pro-war - I can't imagine anyone wanting to have a war. But, I am pro-America, and I believe the only way we will ever have peace is through strength.
If you're not familiar with the PGR, please visit the site and consider joining. All they ask is that you have a desire to show respect for our heroes and their families - they don't care what you ride, or if you ride- just be ready to show respect.
I could describe how it feels to stand at parade rest in the hot sun, holding a flag, honoring a fallen hero, their family and friends while they mourn, but words aren't enough.
The breeze brushes the flag against your face, tears well up and run down your face, your chest expands til it's ready to burst, from pride and sorrow and thankfulness to this person who has made the ultimate sacrifice.
My son serves in the military, my son-in-law serves in the military; I've had a brother, an uncle, cousins, grandfathers, brothers-in-law who have served in the past; I'm proud of each one of them, and I ride for them.
I'm not pro-war - I can't imagine anyone wanting to have a war. But, I am pro-America, and I believe the only way we will ever have peace is through strength.
If you're not familiar with the PGR, please visit the site and consider joining. All they ask is that you have a desire to show respect for our heroes and their families - they don't care what you ride, or if you ride- just be ready to show respect.
Psalm 121
I love reading my Bible... I don't always read it like I should, but when I do, it's like having a cool drink of water when I'm thirsty.
One of my favorite chapters is Psalms 121:
I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.
My help cometh from the LORD, which made heaven and earth.
He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber .
Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep.
The LORD is thy keeper : the LORD is thy shade upon thy right hand.
The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night.
The LORD shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul.
The LORD shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.
There are lots of different versions to read, some good, some bad (if you're not sure about a translation, check with your pastor or other trusted leader, and do some research on Google to make sure you're getting one that sticks to the original wording.) I usually study using the New King James, Young's Literal Translation or the English Standard Version.
But just to read it for the beauty of the language, I love to read the King James version. It's like poetry, and it just flows through me.
I hope your Friday is wonderful and blessed, and I hope you have some verses that comfort you and lift you up.
One of my favorite chapters is Psalms 121:
I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.
My help cometh from the LORD, which made heaven and earth.
He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber .
Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep.
The LORD is thy keeper : the LORD is thy shade upon thy right hand.
The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night.
The LORD shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul.
The LORD shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.
There are lots of different versions to read, some good, some bad (if you're not sure about a translation, check with your pastor or other trusted leader, and do some research on Google to make sure you're getting one that sticks to the original wording.) I usually study using the New King James, Young's Literal Translation or the English Standard Version.
But just to read it for the beauty of the language, I love to read the King James version. It's like poetry, and it just flows through me.
I hope your Friday is wonderful and blessed, and I hope you have some verses that comfort you and lift you up.
Thursday, September 4, 2008
Global Vision's 6 in 1 kit - biker eyewear review
A few weeks ago, I got a new set of riding glasses. They're " The Boss 6 in 1 Kit " by Global Vision. I normally ride using a half-helmet, and my bike has a windshield, but I still like having something to keep bugs and dust out of my eyes, so I'd been using my faithful shades from Wal-mart, but when I started using these, I fell in love.
First, there's one frame, with quick-change lens (clear, yellow and sunglass). Each eyepiece has a little foam pad that helps filter out more dust (and rain) . You can wear them as regular glasses, or take off the end of each arm and add a band that will hold the glasses firmly to your head. I've used all three types of lens, and I really like them. They all fit inside a nice padded case that's about the size of a compact day planner. The case zips up, so changing out lens in late day is only a matter of minutes. I keep the case stored in my left saddlebag, so it actually takes me longer to get the case out than it does to change out the lens.
One suggestion I will make - when you first use these glasses, make sure you snap the sliding lock firmly in place. The first two times I changed out lens, it took a second try to lock them- I was afraid I would snap them in too far. Don't worry about that though-they're very sturdy.
I got mine down at Valley Grove General Store - check with them before you go anywhere else. Lynn's customer service puts her far ahead of anyone else, and her prices are great!
They fit nicely to my face, and are very light; the arms don't bother my ears under my helmet. I think you' ll really like these.
First, there's one frame, with quick-change lens (clear, yellow and sunglass). Each eyepiece has a little foam pad that helps filter out more dust (and rain) . You can wear them as regular glasses, or take off the end of each arm and add a band that will hold the glasses firmly to your head. I've used all three types of lens, and I really like them. They all fit inside a nice padded case that's about the size of a compact day planner. The case zips up, so changing out lens in late day is only a matter of minutes. I keep the case stored in my left saddlebag, so it actually takes me longer to get the case out than it does to change out the lens.
One suggestion I will make - when you first use these glasses, make sure you snap the sliding lock firmly in place. The first two times I changed out lens, it took a second try to lock them- I was afraid I would snap them in too far. Don't worry about that though-they're very sturdy.
I got mine down at Valley Grove General Store - check with them before you go anywhere else. Lynn's customer service puts her far ahead of anyone else, and her prices are great!
They fit nicely to my face, and are very light; the arms don't bother my ears under my helmet. I think you' ll really like these.
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
Rutledge Loop
If you ever wonder why I call my blog (and my website) Around the Loop, here's the reason - I live near the Rutledge Loop, in Crenshaw County. It has got some of the most beautiful scenery you can imagine. Pastures with cows and horses, old homesteads and barns, beautiful flowers (including a lovely garden of cannas at my friend Charlotte's house), and a great woody swamp complete with a wooden bridge. I get the urge to drive through and just ride with my window down, looking and listening. This morning I took a short trip through and found some butterflies and wildflowers (see my flickr page for more).
This area is such a pretty place, and I'm so thankful I live here.
This area is such a pretty place, and I'm so thankful I live here.
Too bad, so sad...
I don't know about you, but I really get ticked off when I get that 'too bad, so sad' attitude from a salesperson. A couple of different situations in the last week has gotten me on the customer service rant again.
Our cell phone service (which shall remain nameless) is supposedly known for no dead zones, our area is very rural and we don't always have good service. On top of that, over the past few weeks, my phone won't ring when I have a call. It goes straight to voice mail, and never shows that I've got a missed call, until several hours (or days) later when the voice mail suddenly shows up. During this time, my phone will show full bars. HB may have to dial me several times before he gets me. We've been by the local offices several times, and they've tried all kinds of things including resetting all the default settings and hooking my phone directly to the computer to update the software. That brings up another point- I can't even update the software where I live, I have to wait 'til I'm in Montgomery, which isn't very often.
I don't guess it would be such a big deal but for 3 things:
The other situation involves my college aged son - I ordered one of his books from the online bookstore related to the university. The order form says, 'you'll get a confirmation email when the book is available for pickup'. Got the email, printed it out and sent it with my son to school so he could pick up the book. He gets to the bookstore the first time, he's told they're not quite ready, come back later. Goes back the next day and is told they're sold out, check back later (I'm thinking why did they sell the book I paid for?). They give him a paid receipt so he can show that next time. He goes back yesterday and they tell him he can't pick it up because it's not in his name, but mine - well duh, my name was on the card I paid with; no place on the order form to put his name.
I called and went 'Sugarbaker' on the girl who answered- I told her the sequence of events, and that we live 30 miles from the school, he's there and I can't just turn loose and drive over there to pick it up and hand it to him. She asks if she can put me on hold and check out some things.
She finally comes back and tells me that there was a mistake - those books had never come in and I shouldn't have gotten a confirmation yet. She had no explanation for the other things; of course I apologized to her, it's not her fault, she's just a student worker. But somewhere, somehow, folks have got to realize they're being paid to do a job. Don't just say the first thing off the top of your head, and brush off customers.
Why are we as a society doing this? I want to challenge you- go over your customer service guidelines; if you've got employees, discuss with them how they should treat your customers. Ask them to remember that the customer is their real boss- if the customers quit buying, you go out of business.
Start taking care of your customers!
Our cell phone service (which shall remain nameless) is supposedly known for no dead zones, our area is very rural and we don't always have good service. On top of that, over the past few weeks, my phone won't ring when I have a call. It goes straight to voice mail, and never shows that I've got a missed call, until several hours (or days) later when the voice mail suddenly shows up. During this time, my phone will show full bars. HB may have to dial me several times before he gets me. We've been by the local offices several times, and they've tried all kinds of things including resetting all the default settings and hooking my phone directly to the computer to update the software. That brings up another point- I can't even update the software where I live, I have to wait 'til I'm in Montgomery, which isn't very often.
I don't guess it would be such a big deal but for 3 things:
- I've given my cell number out to my clients so they can reach me when they need me
- my daughter, who is 15, has after school activities and might need to contact me
- I paid for my phone service and I like to get what I paid for
The other situation involves my college aged son - I ordered one of his books from the online bookstore related to the university. The order form says, 'you'll get a confirmation email when the book is available for pickup'. Got the email, printed it out and sent it with my son to school so he could pick up the book. He gets to the bookstore the first time, he's told they're not quite ready, come back later. Goes back the next day and is told they're sold out, check back later (I'm thinking why did they sell the book I paid for?). They give him a paid receipt so he can show that next time. He goes back yesterday and they tell him he can't pick it up because it's not in his name, but mine - well duh, my name was on the card I paid with; no place on the order form to put his name.
I called and went 'Sugarbaker' on the girl who answered- I told her the sequence of events, and that we live 30 miles from the school, he's there and I can't just turn loose and drive over there to pick it up and hand it to him. She asks if she can put me on hold and check out some things.
She finally comes back and tells me that there was a mistake - those books had never come in and I shouldn't have gotten a confirmation yet. She had no explanation for the other things; of course I apologized to her, it's not her fault, she's just a student worker. But somewhere, somehow, folks have got to realize they're being paid to do a job. Don't just say the first thing off the top of your head, and brush off customers.
Why are we as a society doing this? I want to challenge you- go over your customer service guidelines; if you've got employees, discuss with them how they should treat your customers. Ask them to remember that the customer is their real boss- if the customers quit buying, you go out of business.
Start taking care of your customers!
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
Having a purpose
I hate seeing waste. I don't care where I see it, I hate it. I hate that we're a throwaway society for the most part. I belong to a group called Free-cycle (a yahoo group- check it out in your area) just because I hate to see things get thrown away that can be used again.
For example, right now I'm working on a swap to a lady who needed some wine bottles for a craft she's working on. I don't drink wine, but I know someone who drinks an Acai berry juice mixture, which comes in bottles that look very similar to wine bottles. So I'm collecting them and going to make sure she gets them.
Anytime I see something lying on the side of the road, my first thought is 'can't that be used for something?'. It's not just the thought of landfills overflowing with usable stuff, but that's part of it; the big part is that people are not being good stewards of what God has given us.
That goes for everything - my husband doesn't like to eat leftovers, but they make a very nice lunch for me. I love to drink Gatorade, so I get the ones with the squeeze lid. When they're empty, I wash them out and freeze them for my bike rides.
I save plastic butter tubs for storing leftovers and freezing soups. I save 2-liter bottles, fill them with water and freeze them to use in our coolers when we camp. I save misprinted paper and reuse the blank areas for note paper- who cares if it's already got something on it- after I've used it up, I can shred it and use it for packing paper.
I feel the same way about people- just because a person isn't perfect (and who is?), I believe they can have a purpose. Older people have knowledge and experience that we 'younger' folks don't... and I don't think children are a punishment, either. I believe the Bible is absolutely true, and I have never seen a place where God sent children as a punishment - quite the opposite. He stopped women from having children because of the choices they were making.
I know that sometimes being a parent is tough - but the rewards are so much greater than any effort we have to put out there.
For example, right now I'm working on a swap to a lady who needed some wine bottles for a craft she's working on. I don't drink wine, but I know someone who drinks an Acai berry juice mixture, which comes in bottles that look very similar to wine bottles. So I'm collecting them and going to make sure she gets them.
Anytime I see something lying on the side of the road, my first thought is 'can't that be used for something?'. It's not just the thought of landfills overflowing with usable stuff, but that's part of it; the big part is that people are not being good stewards of what God has given us.
That goes for everything - my husband doesn't like to eat leftovers, but they make a very nice lunch for me. I love to drink Gatorade, so I get the ones with the squeeze lid. When they're empty, I wash them out and freeze them for my bike rides.
I save plastic butter tubs for storing leftovers and freezing soups. I save 2-liter bottles, fill them with water and freeze them to use in our coolers when we camp. I save misprinted paper and reuse the blank areas for note paper- who cares if it's already got something on it- after I've used it up, I can shred it and use it for packing paper.
I feel the same way about people- just because a person isn't perfect (and who is?), I believe they can have a purpose. Older people have knowledge and experience that we 'younger' folks don't... and I don't think children are a punishment, either. I believe the Bible is absolutely true, and I have never seen a place where God sent children as a punishment - quite the opposite. He stopped women from having children because of the choices they were making.
I know that sometimes being a parent is tough - but the rewards are so much greater than any effort we have to put out there.
Monday, September 1, 2008
Take a Chance
If you’re like me, you pass through towns all the time, headed somewhere else. They’ve got some interesting place, store or park, but you tell yourself, ‘I’ll stop next time.’ And of course, the next time, you don’t stop either, because you’re headed somewhere else, and you just don’t want to take the time.
Well, Florala is one of those places to me. Our oldest son and his family live in Crestview, and we usually either go through Florala going down or coming back. Every time we pass through, I’ll tell HB (Honey Bunny, aka my dear husband) “One of these days, I’m going to stop and look around, especially that wetland area on the lake.”I finally took the step – I had to bring two of our granddaughters back to their mom, so we decided to meet in Florala at the Wetlands Park, which is about half-way. As we started down we noticed two bikers coming up behind us, so L’il Red (youngest daughter, who just got her permit – Yay!) got out the camera and took a few pictures of them- they noticed and of course, had to speed up to check out who was holding the camera…
After we got the girls swapped over, L’il Red and I headed over the walkway. It’s a very simple wooden walkway, with handrails, running through the wetlands area. The walkway itself is anywhere from one to two feet above the ground, so the plants and water run under it and aren’t damaged by people passing through. Although some folks have dropped trash, for the most part, it’s a lovely spot.The walkway runs close to the water’s edge, and is under shade for its entire length. Some trees have moss, and there is also lots of other plant life. I didn’t see any animals, but I’m sure there must be some there. Four or five gazebos are spread through the walkway, so you can stop and take a break, if you like.
I did get to take a few shots, but my camera batteries are getting old, so they ran down before I was ready to quit. The next time I go back, I’ll be more prepared.The town also boasts a lot of interesting shops, too. I’ve seen Elvis standing in front of one building, just waiting for someone to come up and take his picture. The store he represents is supposed to have all kinds of goodies inside – I’ve heard their ads, and I’d like to browse for a while – not enough time this trip – again, maybe next time.
We did eat at a little café called Corbey’s Ice Cream and Deli- it used to be a drugstore, and the sign is still hung on the back wall. They’ve got old-fashioned metal stools and high tables; the food is great. They had some wonderful homemade potato salad, and the ice cream is great too! I asked if they were ‘biker friendly’ and the lady told me that she and her husband ride when they can – she said if the bikers behaved, so would she!There’s also a bike shop in town called Biker’s Choice- the sidewalk in that part of town is actually higher than the street level, and they’ve got bikes parked right outside the shop, on the sidewalk. Makes an eye-catching display- you really don’t think about the sidewalk being up that high, and your first thought is ‘how did they get that bike up there?’
So, I took a step and stopped in Florala – now I know what I want to see the next time I’m down there…Before the lawnmower
I know, I know - I'm crazy for even taking pictures like this. And DH agrees- imagine a grown woman laying in the grass, shooting a picture of weeds!
LOL- that's OK- I see beauty in all things, even weeds. God did such a good job creating all things, even weeds... of course, there are some things I don't quite see the reasoning behind, but that's OK - God knows why He does all things, and I'm going to praise Him for it. Even weeds that make a crazy lady happy.
LOL- that's OK- I see beauty in all things, even weeds. God did such a good job creating all things, even weeds... of course, there are some things I don't quite see the reasoning behind, but that's OK - God knows why He does all things, and I'm going to praise Him for it. Even weeds that make a crazy lady happy.
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